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Simplicity
Maybe the real happy ending is falling in love with the simplest parts of life.
It’s savoring that first sip of coffee in the morning, or losing yourself in the smell of freshly baked bread. It’s driving down familiar roads with the windows down, letting the air mess up your hair while your favorite song fills the car. It’s lingering on a quiet afternoon, reading the pages of a book you’ve put off for too long, letting each word wrap around you like an old friend. These moments — the ones that seem so ordinary — hold a kind of magic that fills the cracks we sometimes forget are there.
And maybe, just maybe, it’s finding a piece of joy in small things we often take for granted. Like the laughter that comes out of nowhere, shared with a stranger in a grocery store aisle. Or the comfort of a cozy night at home, wrapped up in a blanket, watching a show you’ve seen a hundred times but still brings a smile to your face.
It’s these little things that pull us back to life, that remind us of just how blessed we are, not because everything is perfect but because we find beauty in what we already have.
~ Mj Blossoms, Writer’s Blossoms
~ Art ‘Autumn Rain’ by Lise Fischer

Angry child – Gabor Mate ‘
Children don’t need not to stress over parents – Gabor Mate’
Body signals problems
Kids pick up on parents vibes – Gabor Mate’
Child denied help ; fear=anxiety / NO Safety
You’ve come so far !
This poem is beautiful and true. Let’s normalize this:
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Silver~
“How many years of beauty do I have left?
she asks me.
How many more do you want?
Here. Here is 34. Here is 50.
When you are 80 years old
and your beauty rises in ways
your cells cannot even imagine now
and your wild bones grow luminous and
ripe, having carried the weight
of a passionate life.
When your hair is aflame
with winter
and you have decades of
learning and leaving and loving
sewn into
the corners of your eyes
and your children come home
to find their own history
in your face.
When you know what it feels like to fail
ferociously
and have gained the
capacity
to rise and rise and rise again.
When you can make your tea
on a quiet and ridiculously lonely afternoon
and still have a song in your heart
Queen owl wings beating
beneath the cotton of your sweater.
Because your beauty began there
beneath the sweater and the skin,
remember?
This is when I will take you
into my arms and coo
YOU BRAVE AND GLORIOUS THING
you’ve come so far.
I see you.
Your beauty is breathtaking.”
~ Jeannette Encinias

Not chasing
Totally true for me
She’s not going to chase after you‼️
She’s not going to constantly prove her value to you.
Because she already knows her worth.
She knows she’s the best thing that will ever come into your life.
She’s aware of her imperfections, but she understands what she’s endured.
She has healed many times from unrecognized trauma, and now fully realizes her life’s value.
If you have the opportunity to be part of her life, consider it a privilege.
If she wants you in her life, there’s a clear reason for it.
She no longer spends time on superficial conversations.
She’s come to understand that her time is valuable, so she won’t waste it on someone who doesn’t recognize her worth.

