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Abandoned Mothers

I regret not having the author’s name , for proper credit

ABANDONED MOTHERS

There is a noxious war being waged by estranged adult children …

The actual casualty of the war is:

The Mother

Not the absent Mother

Not the abusive Mother

Not the dead-beat Mother.

Not the uncaring Mother

But the Mother who loved and stayed

The Mother who broke herself into pieces to keep everything together …. The Mother who gave up her own identity so her children could find theirs…- The Mother who fed, clothed, soothed, worked, and showed up … The Mother who may also have had the role of an absent father.

These Mothers are being told to…

· Just quietly and gracefully, vanish, from the face of the earth, while adult children, wage war, and whine to others, with reinventions of their history, childhood, and their relationships with their mothers, and

· To shut up and accept the blame.

· To not complain.

· To not have needs.

· To not have feelings.

· To not get tired of blame shifting.

· To not be hurt.

· To not be emotional.

· To not be angry.

· To not defend themselves.

· To accept the reinventions and untruths.

Their reinventions then become indictments, waged against the mother, by people who do not even know the mother nor the truth.

· The mother is diagnosed as the bad person

· The mother is labeled as the trigger in a made-up story.

· The mother is the villain based on untruths

· The mother is dehumanized

· No one will think to ask for facts

· No one will think to seek the truth or content

· No one will think to help seek resolution

· No one will think to ask for a healing

· No one will think the adult child is the problem

· No one will think to ask the mother to speak for herself.

· Instead, they will validate the adult child’s reinvention.

· They will determine the mother’s entire identity.

· They will determine the mother is inhuman.

· They will determine the mother is the villain.

· They will diagnose the mother without facts.

· They will let the perpetrator be harmless.

· In other words, no one will think for themselves…

And the irony of this war is…

· The mother must remain silent.

· The mother is not allowed to get mad.

· The mother grieves the loss the hardest.

· The mother hurts the deepest.

· The mother is not allowed to say a word.

· The mother is not allowed to have feelings.

· The mother is not allowed to say how she feels.

· The mother is not allowed to cry.

· The mother is not allowed to be exhausted

· The mother is not allowed to feel pain.

· The mother is not allowed to have emotions.

· The mother is not allowed to have needs.

· The mother is not allowed to be upset about the reinventions and made-up stories.

· The mother must willingly be the scapegoat

· The mother must be dehumanized.

· The mother must accept her rewritten history and identity.

Because if she does not accept this role and speaks up, she will be called…

· “Manipulative”

· “Guilt-tripping”

· “Toxic”

· “Making it all about herself.”

· “She’s the problem”

If you are an estranged mother…

You are the one who willingly paid the cost of birthhood and motherhood and was repaid with blame, silence, betrayal, and distance, so, please, do not forget…

· You stayed

· You are a human

· You are a woman

· You are not toxic

· You are not broken

· You are not the blame

· You are not defined by the pain inflicted.

· You are not meant to be silent

· You are not meant to be diagnosed

· You are not meant to be judged.

· You are not meant to quietly vanish.

· You are not meant to be erased

· You did not create the distance

· You did not create the situation

· You are not disposable

· You are loved.

· You are beautiful.

· You are smart.

· You are kind

· you are caring

· you are loving

· You are precious

· You are unique

· You are strong

· You happily gave life

· And most importantly it is not you…

Mother

I am so glad I healed my Mother wound ; after so much pain and I refuse to allow others to trigger me , as to our relationship.

The way you treat your mother is the way life will treat you. A mother is the source of love and life.

A mother is made of unconditional love, a love that no one else can give you. Don’t judge her. How many times have you sat down to listen to her? To have a conversation with her about her past? Perhaps she never told you about the miserable life she had to endure before you came along.

Maybe she never shared the wounds she carries, the scars that reopen every time she remembers them… the painful childhood and adolescence she lived through. The difficult moments she endured when no one listened to her, when she was mistreated, leaving traces of harsh words, poverty, fears, and abuse.

How many hidden sorrows does she carry in her heart, ones she never shared with you—so you wouldn’t have a distorted image of her life? Out of love, she chose not to tell you, or perhaps silence became her refuge to avoid suffering further.

Treat her well, like the unique treasure she is in your life. Doing so will bring you blessings, peace, joy, stability, and a long life.

And remember, the way you treat your mother is how others will treat you. People around you will learn from your actions and the love you show. There is only one mother—if you don’t value her now, you may regret it in the future when sleepless nights haunt you.

It won’t be your mother keeping you awake—it will be your own demons of disobedience and disrespect that refuse to let you rest. JOIN US👉👉 Ripple of Inspiration

Full Moon – Healing the mother wound

ENERGY UPDATE

Antares, The Lunar Occultation

Healing the Mother Wound Through Fire

Today we experience the Strawberry Moon, the full moon of early summer. Traditionally named by Indigenous peoples to mark the ripening of wild berries, this full moon brings with it a sense of an emotional culmination and energetic ripeness. Emotions have however heightened in the days leading up to it, and you’ll likely feel that something deep is stirring.

This particular full moon rises in the sign of Sagittarius, a fire sign associated with truth, expansion, spiritual insight, and higher vision. This energy wants us to break free from mental and emotional confines, to rise above limitation and seek out what’s repressed. This lunation brings weight because it follows closely after a celestial event: a lunar occultation of Antares, happening yesterday ( June 10th )

Antares, the heart of the Scorpion, is one of the most potent stars in our sky. It is a fixed star of fire, transformation, and karmic purification. The Moon’s passage directly in front of Antares (visible from parts of the Southern Hemisphere) marks an energetic gateway and because of this, light workers are going to see in the world old power dynamics, emotional wounds, or soul contracts becoming ready for a shifting of energetic weight. While the full moon shines its brightest, its going to echo the occultation’s themes. It’s going to want to urging the world soul to shed, transmute, and rise. Antares energy is warrior like, connected to the purification of ego, the confrontation of shadow, and the rebirth of purpose. It is also profoundly linked to the collective mother wound, the ancient fracture in our connection to the divine feminine, to earth, to nurturing, and to emotional safety.

In the etheric realms, Antares is the portal of the divine feminine where the burning of illusion reveals the truth of lineage, legacy, and love. And in contrast to Arcturus in Boötes (often associated with paternal or higher dimensional guidance), Antares instead holds the energy of the cosmic mother, fierce and wise. This is a moment where personal healing connects to the planetary. The waves of unrest we’re seeing in the world, protests, upheaval, shifting social narratives in both LA and now in Ireland mirror the inner shifts happening. What is breaking apart is making space for what is being born. The emotions rising now are not just personal, they are ancestral, karmic, collective. For practitioners, empaths, and energy workers, this is a time to be anchored, present, and open. The lunar light will illuminate what needs witnessing. The Antares portal will burn what’s ready to go.

You are not just feeling this you are part of it.

Remember, Antares is the home to 7th density+ beings such as the Mantis, as well as other incredibly advanced civilisations, some of which are hive minded and solve problems at in a way other galactic species do not have the capacity to create. So The Mother Godhead, the Divine Feminine intelligence of this galaxy, is going to channel her nurturing, healing, and transformative energy through the star Antares, but with a twist of shadow.

So When the Moon the great reflector of the Divine Feminine occults Antares not only will you get an extra thinning of the veil, but its going to allow a more direct communion with this godhead and also the beings known as the Mantis potencially activating ( for those ready ) Antarian codes, opening a portal for those ready to embody the Mantis energies and allowing these beings to connect and their energy be utilised to encode more galactic light from a higher octave of that from Arcturus.

Speaking professionally, once I had fully integrated my Arcturian codes, it was during a similar celestial event that a new galactic frequency, the Mantis, suddenly emerged for me. I began using this energy in my healing sessions in ways that had previously been inaccessible, adding a new cosmic dimension to my private work with clients that took it to another dimension.

Going forward, this alignment will activate more sacred feminine codes within each of us regardless of gender and will awaken cellular memories, soul contracts, and spiritual gifts long hidden. However, as said, there is a twist. This is a portal of transformation through fire, woven within the healing of the cosmic mother wound. The energy is intense and is still growing. To really understand the twist to this energy is to experience the similar virtues of the archetypal energy of Lilith

Lilith is not a gentle guide, she is a force of fire, demanding truth, sovereignty, and the reclamation of what has been suppressed. She is a raw and untamed feminine energy that refuses to be silenced or shamed, so When lightworkers explore her through the lens of healing, particularly around the mother wound, Lilith becomes a force for transformative liberation but with fire integrating shadow simultaneously.

The mother wound is not just about one’s personal relationship with their mother, but the broader healing of emotional pain passed down through generations of women and in a broader sense those elements of the comic mother wounding in your akashic record at the creation and god level. This is why another round of ancestral density is going to want to purge around this time. However it may show up in subtle and insidious ways in this energy by virtue of self sacrifice, silence, shame around femininity or sexuality, and the internalised belief that power must be earned through suffering or obedience and the integration of that wounded shadow.

Humans are taught to suppress emotion, shrink their voices, and prioritise survival over self expression. Simply, what was exiled must now rise. Using fire as a pathway to heal the mother wound though the lens of Lilith as she walks through the fire. This is not a path of ease, it is a path of burning away illusion. The fire purifies what has been inherited unconsciously, allowing the individual and the world soul to know clearly the patterns they have been repeating. Through Lilith’s eyes, rage becomes sacred, grief becomes clarifying, and truth becomes non negotiable. Add a sprinkle of comic codes coming in through the Mantis and Antaren energies as part of your star inheritance combined, and you get the energy over the next coming days. It’s powerful, but subtle. I hope I have explained this in a way that some may understand. It’s complex energy arriving and primeval. See it play out in the world stage. It already is.

If you have time during this period, look up at the Scorpio constellation, connect with Antares, and ask to see a ship in the night sky or invite the beings that dwell there to connect with you. This is a moment when galactic and cosmic light codes pour into the Earth and it will likely have a surreal non earthly feeling. I leave you with a quote the Arcturians they gave me to save myself from duality so that I might work more efficiently as a conduit that will be necessary to embody around this time.

“Do not become blinded by light in its brilliance, nor drown in the darkness, or be fooled by the need to entertain either extreme, but find mastery in balance where both meet in harmony as you become a true ascended master elevating yourself from the the old energy paradigm of duality and its constraints and illusions”

With love

AQ

~ Alexander Quinn – Starseed

Restoration of the Womb

Wombs are no longer portals of pain—

they are returned to their sacred station

as Stargates of Pure Creation.

The anchors of life-light now stabilize

in every mother, every child, every being

who remembers they are worthy of creating in love,

from joy, from innocence, from wholeness.

🫶🏼Raylene Short | Roots Restored Wellness

Life treats you like you treat your Mother

The way you treat your mother is the way life will treat you. A mother is the source of love and life.

A mother is made of unconditional love, a love that no one else can give you. Don’t judge her. How many times have you sat down to listen to her? To have a conversation with her about her past? Perhaps she never told you about the miserable life she had to endure before you came along.

Maybe she never shared the wounds she carries, the scars that reopen every time she remembers them… the painful childhood and adolescence she lived through. The difficult moments she endured when no one listened to her, when she was mistreated, leaving traces of harsh words, poverty, fears, and abuse.

How many hidden sorrows does she carry in her heart, ones she never shared with you—so you wouldn’t have a distorted image of her life? Out of love, she chose not to tell you, or perhaps silence became her refuge to avoid suffering further.

Treat her well, like the unique treasure she is in your life. Doing so will bring you blessings, peace, joy, stability, and a long life.

And remember, the way you treat your mother is how others will treat you. People around you will learn from your actions and the love you show. There is only one mother—if you don’t value her now, you may regret it in the future when sleepless nights haunt you.

It won’t be your mother keeping you awake—it will be your own demons of disobedience and disrespect that refuse to let you rest.

Nursing

I loved nursing and wish I had demanded support so that I wasn’t rushed or running behind .

1st – 4 months

Almost 3 years between

2nd – 6 months

2 years apart

3rd- 3/4 months or less

I regret that I was physically and emotionally exhausted 😴

Do you know that feeling when you put your baby to your breast and she latches quickly and easily.

And you settle into your chair, and move her into a better position. Adjust your breast slightly. She adjusts herself with you. You’ve both done this so many times. You’re a team, the two of you. And what a wonderful team you make.

And you feel your milk come in. Right on cue. Like always.

And you hear your baby’s sucking turning to drinking. Big hungry, satisfied slurps.

You feel a moment of gratitude towards your body for being able to feed your baby so easily. For being able to provide her with everything she needs, when she needs it.

And she looks up at you briefly, just to check you’re still here. You smile down at her and stroke her cheek to confirm that of course you are. No place you’d rather be. She seems satisfied with that acknowledgment.

She closes her eyes again and focuses completely on drinking.

Her little hand is spread out on your breast. Little fingers scratching gently on your skin. With nails that definitely need a trim. You feel like you’re constantly cutting her nails and you’re STILL getting scratched. It’s hard to mind that it in this moment though. Hard to mind it whatsoever.

And the little hand is so inviting. You can’t help touch it. You give it a squeeze and she squeezes you back. Eyes still closed. She retracts her hand and places it back on your breast. She is too busy for distractions.

You admire her eyelashes. Trace a finger along the bridge of her nose. You marvel at how soft her skin is. You know every mark on her body, and where it comes from. The dry spot on her ankle that you’ve been fighting against for weeks. The weird blue vein on her nose. The bruise from when she face planted in her crawling attempts. You know them all, and those you don’t know, you study closely. You examine them and touch them and worry about them.

And you’re suddenly hit by an overwhelming urge to kiss her. You carefully bend your head down and kiss her forehead. Then kiss it again. Breathe in her baby scent. You notice her hair has changed colour since you first met. Lighter. Thicker. Softer. Longer. You let your fingers run through it.

You stroke her arms, her legs. Play with her toes. Pull a little piece of fluff out from between them. Touch the back of her neck to check her temperature. Caress her back lovingly.

And you can tell she isn’t drinking anymore. She is sucking lazily, with a slightly open mouth. A broken seal. Using you as a pacifier. Not that you mind. You will happily be her pacifier if it meant staying like this a little longer. Even if it’s a bad habit. Doesn’t feel like a bad habit right now though.

A little snore escapes her lips.

You smile to yourself. She is asleep.

Full and safe and warm.

You love that she can find such peace and comfort in your arms.

You don’t feel a rush to do anything but sit here with your sleeping baby.

Nothing seems very urgent right now.

Nothing seems more important than this.

In a world of distractions, you love these moments where she’s your only one❤️

Written by: The Mommy Poet