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Access Great Leaps Forward
“Access Great Leaps Forward”
9D Arcturian Council through Yvonne Constancio
This is a time of great energy that we are seeing right now. What we’re seeing is a burst of energy from the great power of the Sun causing great growth. What we’re seeing is a leap in growth.
If you are able to ride the wave of this energy that is available to you right now, you will find that there will be a massive amount of forward motion for you in whatever it is that you desire.
It is important at this time to find yourself with your skin to the Earth. Direct contact with your feet, with your hands. Direct contact of your eyes in the sunlight. For this is going to be activating you in a way that causes you to see with clear vision what the next step is toward your desire.
There is an important aspect here to remember. You are an active participant in creating what it is that you wish to experience. And while the energies are in support of you – they are in a very active state – in what one might call Yang Energy – where life force is very strong, or what we might call within its fullest potential …
It is also important that you recognize that just because you are have access to this energy, that it is not simply an energy that creates without your participation. You must receive it in a manner in which you recognize now what actions are to be taken by you.
So when we say “activation,” this does not mean that you are suddenly activated with whatever it is you desire to suddenly be manifested in front of you. But rather, you are activated to take action and you know what action it is that must be taken.
You are an active participant in taking action and creating that which you desire.
The energies that you will encounter in this time and perhaps for the next two to three months will be one that offers you the opportunity to WANT to take action. Rather than living in self-defeating thought, or beliefs, or patterns. You will have the urge to want to breakthrough these patterns and beliefs.
And here is where the support is – for you to be activated in a manner that causes you to move forward and when you choose to move forward, the energy that is being supplied to you at this time is one that can cause great leaps.
So, these will not be tiny steps that you will experience but rather, great leaps forward toward what it is that you desire.
It is important that you stay open to the energies available to you now. It is important that you are an active participant with the energies available to you now.
It is is important that you recognize the full potential that is available to you now. That activates, enlivens, and animates the full potential within yourself. Like magnets coming together to create a field of full potential.
This is what is available to you. Take advantage of this time and the energy being provided for you and to you. With gratitude, find yourself sitting, meditating, walking on the Earth with an opening of full reception to this energy.
Healing Truths
For a Woman to Heal She has to feel Safe
For a Man to Heal He has to feel Heard
For a Child to Heal They have to Feel Loved
For a Couple to Heal They have to feel Connected…
For a Community to Heal It has to feel One
For a Country to Heal It has to feel Honoured
For a Planet to Heal It has to feel Balanced
For a Universe to Heal – All of these things must happen…
-Anaiya Sophia
Artwork Daniel Mirante
Signs you’ve done your shadow work
“A person who laughs at his own weaknesses and faults realizes and recognizes his own ignorance.
He can easily evolve and rise to the supreme state of blissful laughter.
He can soon laugh, watching the whole universe as a play of God.”
-Amma ❤️
Child Abuse & Complex Trauma – Craig Childress PsyD
Is there evil?
Researchers have called the Dark Tetrad the core of evil – narcissistic – psychopathic – manipulative – sadistic. That is a seriously problematic human.
Is there evil apart from the person who does evil things?
Does love exist apart from the person who loves? Or is love bound within by the heart that holds it? Is love within us, or do we allow ourselves to be captured by something beyond us?
Is love something separate and alive in the universe? Or does love begin and end in us?
Are people evil? Or have people been captured by evil? Are people evil because they have surrendered to something that lives beyond them, that moves in us and through us, but is not us?
Is there evil?
Motivating patterns living in our minds – but patterns apart from us – not us?
My professional pathology is the trans-generational transmission of trauma. The childhood trauma of the parent lives in their minds and they transfer their trauma to the child. I’ve watched evil as it moves between minds.
That’s the best time to stop it, when it’s moving between minds. Once it’s in the child’s mind it becomes more difficult to extract, and if we don’t extract it in childhood, it’s nearly impossible to get out once the adult mind takes its shape.
When it’s moving between minds, from the parent to the child, that’s when it’s most vulnerable – catch it – stop it in transit.
I’ve worked child abuse. I’ve seen evil move from mind to mind. Evil attacks the children. I’ve been there. I still am.
We sacrifice the children by our apathy. We don’t care. We create agencies to pacify us in our continuing slumber, and we barely fund the agencies we create. The sacrifice of children is less expensive. They are expendable humans.
No one sees our abandoned and abused children, because no one cares. You know the feeling. It’s exactly the same thing – the workings of evil – there – here. No one sees. No one comes.
You’ve been abandoned to the evil.
The children of abuse, neglect, and abandonment grow up. They become adults but are still children inside. We all are. We are the patterns of love and fear that formed us. We live to our patterns, we live to our expectations, we live to our fears and desires to be loved.
Is the person evil? Or is the person the victim of evil as well? Is that an adult, or a traumatized child?
I like empathy. That’s a good emotion. It hurts sometimes to be connected to the pain. That’s a good thing – to hurt when there’s hurt.
I like compassion too. It’s different than empathy, similar but different. Warmer.
What happens when we bring empathy and compassion to the damage caused by evil?
I think that would be a good thing. I think empathy and compassion are always good things to apply.
What’s happening in the family courts is evil.
The Dark Triad is here in the family courts, as is the Dark Tetrad. Machiavellian manipulation. Narcissistic. Psychopathic. Sadistic. That pathology, that problem in humanness, is in the family courts.
I’ve been here in this court-involved custody conflict pathology for ten years. I’ve seen it. I’m a trauma psychologist out of child abuse and foster care. That’s why I’m here.
This is my pathology – child abuse – the trans-generational transmission of trauma. It’s the core of evil.
It’s moving between minds in the family courts. I watch it move. That’s the best time to extract it, when it’s moving. Once it settles into the mind, it becomes more difficult.
It hides, and it has hooks into the mind.
The absence of empathy is the capacity for human cruelty. Child abuse and complex trauma originates in the absence of empathy. They are the same thing. The treatment for the traumatic absence of empathy… is empathy.
Abundant empathy – if you’re asking the child to understand you and what you’re saying, empathy is flowing in the wrong direction.
Are people evil?
Or are they children who’ve been damaged by something beyond us, something that moves in us and through us? Evil attacks the children. We sacrifice the children to our gods of apathy and peace, and then wonder at the evil let loose in the world.
Is there evil? Where does it come from? From us, or from somewhere beyond us, moving in us and through us, but not us?
I’m a trauma psychologist out of foster care. This is my pathology, child abuse and complex trauma – the trans-generational transmission of trauma. Ripples.
Where do the ripples begin? When do they end?
It’s a motivational pathology.
Craig Childress, Psy.D.
Clinical Psychologist, CA PSY 18857
The Healing Journey
Being raised in drama, trauma and dysfunction can leave us, as adults, continuing the patterns of pain.
We often don’t know who we are.
We don’t know what we like or what we want for ourselves.
We may feel like a chameleon…always changing to our circumstances and surroundings.
Eager to jump into situations where we are focused on keeping others happy without knowing what might make US happy.
We know we don’t feel right but don’t know how to feel better.
Staying safe and sacrificing “me” to stay safe was how we survived but now we want to do more than survive…we want to learn how to live.
We can begin by recognizing this dynamic of the dysfunction and start taking ownership of how we feel, what we think and what we do.
We are no longer slaves to the past as we begin to consider our future.
We may only have a sense of knowing that we don’t like how we are being treated.
So we begin by asking “what do I like?”
“I know I don’t like feeling like this so what might I like instead?”
We can make a list of things we find pleasure in and purposing to invite more of that into our days.
As we find our sense of self that is separate from those around us we may notice that we start to feel better about ourselves.
Oftentimes this improvement helps us to see that staying with those who continue to berate us is no longer serving us.
This empowers us to continue to ask those questions…
What do I like?
What do I not like?
What do I want?
We begin to see that we no longer have the need to sacrifice ourselves to stay safe.
We begin to dream about what could be as we let go of what was.
We begin to shape ourselves into the person we needed all along.
We begin to smile more.
We laugh more.
We begin to feel freedom from the pain and invite the pleasures that come with knowing who we are and that this is more than who they told us we were.
We begin to hope and trust that we do indeed know what’s best for ”me” as we let go of survival and learn how to live.
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