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Black Sheep

The black sheep usually doesn’t follow the crowd because every once in a while, the crowd is literally going the wrong way in mass. It takes a black sheep to stand out and say, ‘Hey, I think we’re headed off a cliff here!’ They may be labeled as outcasts or rebels, but in reality, they’re the ones who are brave enough to challenge the status quo and forge their own path.

Let’s celebrate the black sheep in our lives – the ones who inspire us to think differently, to question the norms, and to embrace our individuality.

Be careful who you let into your home

Be cautious about the souls you invite into your heart and your home, for the truest form of imprisonment doesn’t lie in locked doors or guarded walls, but within the confines of a house devoid of peace and love. The person you choose as a life partner can shape not only your happiness but the entire course of your life. They hold the power to either nurture your spirit or drain it. Therefore, choosing someone who treasures your peace and helps it grow is one of the most important decisions you will ever make. This becomes especially critical when dealing with toxic personalities like narcissists, who thrive on draining the emotional energy of others while offering nothing in return but turmoil.

In the beginning, a narcissist might seem like everything you ever dreamed of. Their magnetic charm, captivating presence, and lavish attention can make you feel like you’re living in a fairy tale. This intoxicating period of love-bombing can sweep you off your feet, leaving you with the impression that you’ve met your soulmate. Their constant compliments, seemingly endless affection, and intense focus on you may give the illusion of a deep, profound connection.

But this euphoria doesn’t last. Slowly, the mask starts to slip, and the narcissist’s true colors come to light. The warmth and affection that once made you feel so secure begins to shift into something darker and more unsettling. What starts as subtle criticism grows into blatant emotional manipulation. The person who once seemed to adore everything about you now finds fault in the smallest things. This slow, insidious process of breaking down your confidence can leave you confused and questioning your worth. The narcissist’s skill in gaslighting – making you doubt your own perceptions and reality – compounds this, creating a constant state of emotional dependency.

Living with a narcissist can feel like being trapped on a rollercoaster of emotions. One moment, they shower you with love and approval; the next, they withhold affection and become cold and distant.

Love yourself deeper than the pain of abuse ; you’re worth it

THIS IS FOR ANYONE WHO HAS SUFFERED FROM AN ABUSIVE AND NARCISSISTIC RELATIONSHIP!

I know you went through all of it:

The pain.

The fights.

The screaming.

The gaslighting.

The guilt-tripping.

The threats.

The manipulations.

The emotional abuse.

The trauma.

The affairs.

Even worse, the physical abuse.

You called it love but the person who put you through this made you believe you’re being delusional. They made you think you’re the problem and that it’s your fault why the relationship failed.

You begged for them to stay.

You sent long texts and called a hundred times — but they never answered.

You had to throw away your dignity because you’d rather lose yourself than lose someone you love.

You cried for weeks and months, but there’s nothing else you could do to change what happened.

You went through hell but they just don’t care at all.

I hear you. I see you. I know how it felt because I’ve been there.

I want to remind you that this pain will not last forever. You didn’t do anything wrong for demanding to be treated right. They’re just not meant for you.

I swear that someday, you will heal, my love.

Please don’t blame yourself for loving deeper than the pain they gave you.

You are worth it and that will never change even after everything you’ve been through.

Please remember these words all too well.

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Full Moon Aries 10/14/2024

“Just by being yourself,

That’s how you are of service to others,

whether you know it or not.

Just walking down the street being yourself, smiling, radiating happiness

and fulfillment.

How do you know that some other person walking down the street won’t just observe you and go, ‘That person makes me feel so much better. Today I was having a lousy day but now, seeing that person smile,

they’ve changed my day.’ And you never even meet that person.

“How do you know you’re not being of service just by being yourself?

Don’t think it has to look a certain way. Don’t think you even have to know about it. You are being your service when you are YOU because being YOU is your purpose in life. And when you are being YOU, you have no idea how many other people you’re affecting. You may never know.

“But you do know you are doing what you need to do to be YOU. That’s the only way you can be of service, just by being you.

If you’re someone else, how can you be of service to anyone? Because you’re not there for them to find. So trust the unfoldment of your path and know that every step along the way when You are Being Authentically YOU, You are Being of Service, whether you know it or not.”

~ Bashar, through Darryl Anka, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0tRjn3WiJXc