Childress : Second Opinion/ Parental Alienation

Just so we’re clear… for all you parents who are going to get a forensic custody evaluation for $20,000 – $40,000, you can add a surcharge of an additional $10,000 for a second-opinion review by Dr. Childress to correct the misguided errors in the forensic custody evaluation.

AND… I’m going to recommend that your family get a written treatment plan, and for that you’ll need a diagnosis… which the forensic custody evaluation did not provide. Therefore, you will need to get a clinical diagnostic assessment of the attachment-related pathology in your family for about $2,500 – $5,000 with tele-health second opinion.

Hmm, I have an idea… why don’t we skip the forensic custody evaluation and the second-opinion analysis of it from Dr. Childress and save all that money… and START with a clinical diagnostic assessment of the attachment pathology in your family.

You need a treatment plan. A treatment plan requires a diagnosis, the treatment for cancer is different than the treatment for diabetes. You need a clinical diagnostic assessment to return a diagnosis to guide the development of a written treatment plan.

So let’s do that. Let’s get a diagnostic assessment to see what the problem is, then get a written treatment plan to fix whatever the problem is.

We must first diagnose what the pathology is before we know how to treat it. We must first identify what the problem is before we know how to fix it.

Diagnosis = identify
Pathology = problem
Treatment = fix it

Forensic psychology is a failed experiment in service delivery to a vulnerable population. Clinical psychology needs to return. They will refuse, it’s too dangerous. We need to make it safe for them to return.

That’s my role. We start by establishing baseline standard of practice to which ALL mental health professionals can be held accountable.

All psychologists should be applying EXACTLY the same information (the best), to reach EXACTLY the same conclusions (accurate), and provide EXACTLY the same recommendations (effective).

Is there a shared persecutory delusion? What’s the answer? If not, why not? Is the belief system true?

Is there psychological abuse of the child (DSM-5 V995.51)? If not, why not? What more would need to happen for it to become Child Psychological Abuse (V995.51)?

Is there psychological and emotional abuse of the parent using the child as the weapon (DSM-5 V995.82)? If not, why not? What more would need to happen for it to become Spouse or Partner Abuse, Psychological?

Family law attorneys will need to establish the path through the court system – treatment not custody – we want a written treatment plan… for that we need a diagnostic risk assessment for possible child abuse.

Clinical psychologists need to return – treatment not custody. You will want DBT therapy (Linehan) for it’s structure and containment of personality disorder pathology, and you will want the attachment therapy of EFT (Johnson) to inform the court-adapted DBT family therapy.

Market demand. Supply follows money. You’re the solution. You just needed to be given a choice – forensic or clinical – custody or treatment.

Choose treatment to fix things. Forensic psychology fixes nothing – ever. Ask them. Do you diagnose things? No. Do you treat things? No. What do you do? They do forensic custody evaluations for $20,000 to $40,000 put an added Dr. Childress second-opinion corrective surcharge.

I suggest you don’t want one of those. I suggest you want a clinical diagnostic risk assessment – is there a shared persecutory delusion (Walters & Friedlander, 2016; Family Court Review)?

The assessment for a delusional thought disorder is a Mental Status Exam of thought and perception. Do they now how to conduct one? Dr. Childress does. Perhaps they should consult with Dr. Childress.

From Improving Diagnosis: “Clinicians may refer to or consult with other clinicians (formally or informally) to seek additional expertise about a patient’s health problem. The consult may help to confirm or reject the working diagnosis or may provide information on potential treatment options.” (Improving Diagnosis in Healthcare, 2015)

From Improving Diagnosis: “Clinicians can also recommend that the patient seek a second opinion from another clinician to verify their impressions of an uncertain diagnosis or if they believe that this would be helpful to the patient.” (Improving Diagnosis in Healthcare, 2015)

See. Get a second opinion.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.
Clinical Psychologist, PSY 18857

WHAT are minions and flying monkeys? They are the Narcissist’s ‘go to’ people when they need back up because they are about to be exposed

WHAT are minions and flying monkeys? They are the Narcissist’s ‘go to’ people when they need back up because they are about to be exposed

https://afternarcissisticabuse.wordpress.com/2022/07/24/what-are-minions-and-flying-monkeys-they-are-the-narcissists-go-to-people-when-they-need-back-up-because-they-are-about-to-be-exposed-2/
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Professional Therapist: Kim Saeed

I admire those who enter the mental health profession to help others.

And I agree, there is far too much material being posted online about narcissism that’s either completely biased, sabotaging, or utterly false. One thing that really irks me is the overlapping labels folks create to describe a toxic person they’re dealing with (i.e., my covert, self-aware, vulnerable narcissist who has ADHD, is on the autism spectrum, and has schizophrenic tendencies).

I mean, sure, there’s such a thing as comorbidity, but many of these conditions cannot even coexist together.

But, the fact remains that many licensed therapists fail to recognize narcissistic/emotional abuse. Not to mention, the field of mental health is saturated with professionals who are themselves manipulative and cunning. You might be shocked, for example, to learn that your favorite YouTuber or FB coach is just as bad as the person you’re trying to heal from.

I’ve heard many times how someone went to couple’s therapy with the narcissist, only for the narcissist to start an affair with the psychologist.

I’ve heard hundreds upon hundreds of stories from targets of abuse whose lives were wasted or completely destroyed by the erroneous advice of therapists.

So, what’s a person to do?

If your therapist is using the “it takes two” approach, while failing to notice your symptoms of narcissistic abuse syndrome, you should probably find another therapist.

If your therapist is acting just a bit too enamored with the narcissist during couple’s therapy, find another therapist (for yourself, as couple’s therapy is pointless with narcissists).

If your therapist says things like, “There must be something about your personality that brings out their abusive nature”, find another therapist.

Just as with any profession, there are folks who are extremely good, and there are those who are not.

You are not obligated to continue therapy with someone who isn’t helping you.

Traditional therapy didn’t help me. I saw seven different therapists and the farthest any of them got was to tell me to set better boundaries.

But, there ARE good therapists out there who can help you recover from narcissistic abuse. Usually, they are the ones who experienced it themselves.

Do your research, ask questions, and if there isn’t a connection there or you feel invalidated, keep searching.

Kim 🕊️