A reminder to any woman who looks at her body and finds it flawed: these are prehistoric carvings of goddesses. These represent the epitome of feminine beauty to those we seek to emulate when we go on “paleo” diets. Not a flat tummy, thigh gap, or gravity-defying breast among them.
These are bodies that are unique to their owners, and contain stories of desire, creation, hardship, and perseverance. These are bodies that are ready to hold you as you cry. These are bodies that worked every day to provide nourishment, resources and guidance to their communities while also caring for the next generation. They supported one another in their labor, holding one another’s babies while they worked crafting tools, collecting water & singing songs to teach the young about the goddesses they so closely resembled.
And these carvings weren’t found in just one area. They’ve been discovered nearly everywhere humanity has settled and thrived. Which means there was a time when womanhood, in all her power and capacity, was revered not as merely a sexual novelty or shunned as sinful temptation, but seen as a source of inspiration to create, to connect, and to find courage.
Today, our patriarchal society reveres conformity in women over all. It demands that women strive to achieve and maintain a form that resembles an untested girl. Our bodies must look perpetually untouched, unspoiled, a blank slate for a man to claim and use and write his own story upon. Instead of worshiping women as they are, we scrutinize and discard them as never good enough. And the more we strive to conform, the more we give up control of our bodies.
So have comfort, women: with each fat roll and jiggle you gain as you move forward in time, you come closer to resembling the goddess as she originally appeared in the hearts of humanity. She lives in you and longs to be seen and revered as she was before.
At its lowest, sex is nothing but a biological urge, a mere satisfying of lower fleshly desires.
Sex at its highest is a prayer and meditation.
Sex at its highest is communion with God & Goddess.
Sex at its highest is the meeting of the Universal soul.
Sex at its highest is the dissolving into the ocean of the infinite. Sex at its highest is no longer just sex.
At its highest, sex is the bonding together of two individuals, who are merging their energies into one divine movement and vibrating on the same frequency.
Sex at its highest is the finding and the maintaining of the same wave length within two individuals, because it’s the coming together of opposite polarities forming a complete circuit.
Sex at its highest is the ecstatic uniting of the God and Goddess within Self, in both.
Sex is a Sacred Energy Exchange of Magnetic and Energetic Energies.
May all learn to honour it and keep it sacred for their Beloved.
Please be mindful who you share energies with.
When a man enters your womb, what type of energy and consciousness does he have?
Is he bitter, is he happy, does he love himself, does he love you? Is he a positive or negative thinker?
When a woman makes love to you is she blessing you or cursing you?
Is she bitter, is she happy, does she love herself, does she love you? Is she a positive or negative thinker?
Sex is a ritual of exchanging DNA, Energies, Thoughts, Emotions and Spirits.
During sex, you become a spiritual sponge for the consciousness and energy of that other person.
Each pump and each thrust is an affirmation.
Are they draining your life force and your energy or are they recharging healing and re-fueling your spirit?
Are they leading you into un-fulfillment low frequency energy, negativity, depression and destruction, or are they elevating you into a higher frequency of love, life and bliss?
Be mindful of the TRUE POWER OF SEX!
Be mindful and master how your sexual energy is being exchanged, received and returned back to you.
Sex should be healing, powerful, rejuvenating medicine to every part of your being…From a cellular level, to your organs, to your mind state, and to your spirit and soul…
Childhood emotional development lays the foundation for: adult relationships, our own self worth, plus the overall belief of what “love” looks like.
Reparenting ourselves (learning how to set boundaries + how to meet our own needs) is something most of us didn’t learn in childhood.
Because I didn’t learn these skills, I found myself in relationships plus situations where I was always fawning (people pleasing), ignoring my needs, plus playing the role of caretaker in my relationships.
This is not true emotional connection which is why these relationships always feel so lonely + unfulfilling. If you’re just starting to reparent yourself, the VERY first step is getting to know yourself. Spending time with just you. Learning your own preferences, finding your interests, honoring what brings you joy.
In chaotic or dysfunctional homes, children are taught to people please. To put others before themselves. To default to other people. In this environment, there is a lack of sense of self. “Self” only comes through what other people think of us or how other people make us feel.
Get to know YOU. Learn your own inner voice. Sit with the difficult emotions that come when we stop people pleasing for love