Isolation A huge tool of Abuse or Safety In My Case

I felt I had no choice but to isolate .

Our children were exampled the methods of

a detached abuser , who never involved himself

in partnership , and fathered like a friend/brother

rather than a Dad . That was abusive during our

1st due to the surprise ” gift” he wasn’t responding

to as such, moreover obsessed with the change

in finances .. home was not somewhere he liked

to hang out, but was my haven, my peace , my

solace. Quoted as saying he warned a son before

choosing marriage , of not finding himself having

to marry ..Baby was 1 year , 7 days after I do.

He was responsible for birth control , and sadly

the pattern for non responsibility has been life

long as in horror I learned of all of the outs he

had experienced from infancy on …it’s a very

long list .

I find him the most self isolated , unreachable

soul I never knew ..His heart is so isolated from

all that life teaches , as I suspected there are

many fragmented parts of narcissistic behavior

and it can be relieved by personal choice and intent .

Our sons and grandchildren are not enough to be

incentive , and that still shocks me .

Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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