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Neanderthal Husband gives advice

It is important for men to remember that, as women grow older, it becomes harder for them to maintain the same quality of housekeeping as when they were younger. When you notice this, try not to yell at them. Some are oversensitive, and there’s nothing worse than an oversen*sitive woman.

My name is Mike. Let me relate how I handled the situation with my wife. When I retired a few years ago, it became necessary for Pat to get a full-time job, along with her part-time job, both for extra income and for the health benefits that we needed. Shortly after she started working, I noticed she was beginning to show her age. I usually get home from the golf club about the same time she gets home from work.

Although she knows how hungry I am, she almost always says she has to rest for half an hour or so before she starts dinner. I don’t yell at her. Instead, I tell her to take her time and just wake me when she gets dinner on the table. I generally have lunch in the Men’s Grill at the club, so eating out is not reasonable. I’m ready for some home-cooked grub when I hit that door. She used to do the dishes as soon as we finished eating. But now it’s not unusual for them to sit on the table for several hours after dinner.

I do what I can by diplomatically reminding her several times each evening that they won’t clean themselves. I know she really appreciates this, as it does seem to motivate her to get them done before she goes to bed.

Another symptom of aging is complaining, I think. For example, she will say that it is difficult for her to find time to pay the monthly bills during her lunch hour. But, Boys, we take ’em for better or worse, so I just smile and offer encouragement. I tell her to stretch it out over two, or even three days. That way, she won’t have to rush so much. I also remind her that missing lunch completely now and then wouldn’t hurt her any (if you know what I mean). I like to think tact is one of my strong points.

When doing simple jobs, she seems to think she needs more rest periods. She had to take a break when she was only half-finished mowing the yard. I try not to make a scene. I’m a fair man. I tell her to fix herself a nice, big, cold glass of freshly squeezed lemonade and just sit for a while. And, as long as she is making one for herself, she may as well make one for me, too.

I know that I probably look like a saint in the way I support my wife. I’m not saying that showing this much consideration is easy. Many men will find it difficult. Some will find it impossible! Nobody knows better than I do how frustrating women get as they get older. However, Guys, even if you just use a little more tact and less criticism of your aging wife because of this article, I will consider that writing it was well worthwhile. After all, we are put on this earth to help each other.

EDITOR’S NOTE:

Mike, died suddenly on July 23 of a perforated rectum. The police report says he was found with a Calloway extra-long 50-inch Big Bertha Driver II golf club jammed up his rear end, with barely 5 inches of grip showing, and a sledge hammer laying nearby. His wife was arrested and charged with murd*er. The all-woman jury took only 10 minutes to find her Not Guilty, accepting her defense that Mike, somehow without looking, accidentally sat down on his golf club. πŸ™ƒπŸ˜›πŸ€£πŸ€£

Credit – original owner ( respect 🫑)

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If you want your wife to….

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1. If you want your wife to make love to you often, then take care of her heart. You cannot mistreat your wife and hurt her then expect great and frequent sex.

2. If you want your wife to respect you, then you have to do respectable and admirable things. You cannot dishonour her and shame her then expect her to excuse your gross misbehavior with a blanket respect. She can’t submit to torture.

3. If you want your wife to feel safe with you and open up to you, then you have to stop emotionally and physically abusing her. You cannot instil fear and wonder why she protects herself from you.

4. If you want your wife to enjoy intimacy with you, then you have to maintain oral and body hygiene. You cannot expect your wife to enjoy kissing you and playing with your penis yet you smell of sweat, you don’t shower, don’t brush your teeth and smell of cigarette, weed or alcohol.

5. If you want your wife to stop complaining, then you need to stop repeating the same wrongs. She complains because she has to call you out when you do wrong since she believes you can be better.

6. If you want your wife to be financially transparent with you and to stop making financial decisions behind your back, then you need to start showing financial responsibility. As long as you keep being reckless, she will save and invest without your knowledge to protect her future and that of the children.

7. If you want your wife to brag about you to people, then do things that make her proud. She cannot pretend that you are a great man yet you are not.

8. If you want your wife to stop nagging and being moody, then you need to make time to spend with her and make her feel special. A woman nags and becomes grumpy when she feels neglected. A loved up wife glows.

9. If you want your wife to stop fighting your friends, then you need to stop surrounding yourself with the wrong friends and allowing your friends to pull you away from your family. You wife is just protecting you.

10. If you want your wife to be proud to be your wife, then you have to do things that make her say “Yes” to you daily. Don’t expect her to be satisfied with the title of wife just because she wears your ring, has a marriage certificate or has your child/children.

11. If you want your wife to help you and support you, then you need to have a vision and share it with her. A woman can only be a helper to a man who knows where he is going and gives her room to build with him.

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Be Careful who you date & marry

Be careful who you date and marry, for the biggest prison in the world is a home without peace. The person you choose to share your life with will profoundly impact your happiness, well-being, and overall life trajectory. It’s crucial to understand the importance of selecting a partner who adds to your peace, not one who drains it. This is especially true when dealing with narcissists, often referred to as toxic energy vampires, who are skilled at playing games and manipulating people.

Narcissists can be incredibly charming and persuasive at the beginning of a relationship. They are experts in creating an illusion of a perfect partner, often referred to as “love bombing.” During this phase, they will shower you with affection, compliments, and attention, making you feel exceptionally special and valued. This intense flattery and focus can be intoxicating, leading you to believe you’ve found someone extraordinary. However, this is a tactic to quickly win your trust and devotion.

Once they have secured your affection, narcissists often begin to shift their behavior subtly. They may start to devalue you through criticism, manipulation, and control, all while maintaining a facade of charm and concern. This gradual shift can be confusing and disorienting, leaving you questioning your own perceptions and feelings. Narcissists are skilled at gaslighting, a manipulative tactic designed to make you doubt your reality and become increasingly dependent on their approval and validation.

In relationships with narcissists, the highs and lows can be extreme. They might alternate between periods of affection and validation and periods of coldness and criticism. This cycle creates a rollercoaster of emotions, keeping you off balance and focused on regaining their approval. This dynamic is emotionally exhausting and can lead to a significant loss of self-esteem and self-worth over time.

A home with a narcissist is often filled with tension and conflict. Narcissists thrive on control and dominance, frequently disregarding your needs and feelings. Their inability to empathize with others can lead to a lack of genuine connection and mutual respect. Living in such an environment can feel like a constant battle, draining your energy and undermining your peace and happiness.

It’s essential to recognize the signs of narcissistic behavior early in a relationship to protect your well-being. Look for red flags such as excessive self-centeredness, a lack of empathy, a need for constant admiration, and a tendency to manipulate and control. Trust your instincts and prioritize your peace and happiness. Establishing and maintaining healthy boundaries is crucial when dealing with potential narcissists.

In summary, be careful who you date and marry because the biggest prison in the world is a home without peace. Narcissists, or toxic energy vampires, are adept at playing games and manipulating people to secure their own needs and desires. By understanding their tactics and remaining vigilant, you can protect yourself from entering a relationship that drains your energy and undermines your peace. Your home should be a sanctuary of love, respect, and tranquility, not a battleground for dominance and control. Choose wisely, and prioritize your peace above all else.