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Home without peace / Narcissism

The biggest prison in the world isn’t behind bars—it’s a home without peace. 🏚️💔

And let me tell you this: you will NEVER find peace in a home with a narcissist. 🔥

It’s not a home. It’s a battleground. 🪖 A place of chaos, manipulation, and control.

Break free. Choose peace. Choose YOU. ✨🏡💖

#WordsOfSteele #ShatteredSilence #RadiantResilience #BoldAndUnbreakable #BeYourBestYou #WinningInTheEnd

Feeling home 🥰

“Some men will walk into your life and change everything for you, give you another reason to live. Keep them close.

They’ll challenge you in ways you never thought possible, pushing you to be stronger, braver, and more aligned with your true self. These men see the best in you, even when you can’t.

They remind you of your potential and inspire you to reach for it, giving you the courage to break through limitations you once held as truths.

When these men enter your life, they don’t just offer companionship, they bring stability. You feel safe in their presence, knowing they’ll hold you in moments of weakness without judgment. Their touch, their words, and even their silences offer healing. They don’t rush your growth, but patiently walk alongside you as you evolve, supporting you with unwavering faith.

These men don’t shy away from your complexities; they embrace every layer. They honor your story-the battles you’ve fought and the dreams you’ve yet to pursue. They don’t try to change you but rather celebrate who you are at your core, reminding you that you are enough exactly as you are. It’s through this acceptance that you begin to heal deeper parts of yourself.

They will inspire you to dream bigger and love harder. With them, love feels like a safe space to explore your vulnerabilities. You’ll find yourself opening up in ways you haven’t before, trusting that they will hold your heart with care. These men understand the power of emotional intimacy, knowing it’s the foundation for a lasting, meaningful connection.

In their presence, you’ll learn to trust again-not just in others but in yourself. They help restore your faith in love, in goodness, and in the possibility of creating a life filled with joy and connection. Their belief in you allows you to rebuild your own belief in what’s possible.

They are the kind of men who take the time to truly know you, not just your surface-level desires but the dreams you hold in the quiet corners of your heart. They are curious about what lights you up and what keeps you up at night, always striving to understand you on a deeper level.

Their love isn’t just in the grand gestures; it’s in the little things. It’s in the way they remember the details, the way they listen when you speak, the way they show up even when it’s inconvenient for them. Their consistency is their promise, a reminder that they are here for the long haul.

With these men, you’ll feel seen in a way that’s rare. You won’t have to hide parts of yourself or pretend to be someone you’re not. In fact, they’ll encourage you to bring out even more of who you truly are. Their love gives you the freedom to be authentically you.

So when such a man enters your life, cherish him. Understand that what you’ve found is rare and sacred. Keep him close, not because he completes you, but because he complements you in the most profound ways. He’s the kind of man who makes the journey of life feel a little lighter, and the love between you feel like home.”

-Siralak Colon

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As time goes by

As time goes by,

You will loosen your grip on that rock,

The one you always thought was home,

And you will realise that home is not a place,

It’s a state of mind.

Let it go.

As time goes by,

You will learn to see yourself more clearly,

The girl who was always too much of one thing,

And too little of another, was actually

Everything she needed to be.

Let her out.

As time goes by,

You will let the simple things become the big,

And you will allow the big things to become the simple,

And that readjustment will be,

The day you really start to live,

Let it be.

As time goes by,

You will be forced to say goodbye many times,

And your soft little heart will shatter but,

It will still beat and that will bring you,

All the purpose you need.

Let it beat.

As time goes by,

You will stop choosing wealth over peace,

You will stop choosing money over time,

And you will see that the treasures you need,

Are in the smiles and the laughter.

Let them in.

As time goes by,

The moments you remember when your life flashes past,

Are never the awful memories my friend, it’s the joy,

The summer nights, the lazy days with loved ones,

The midnight chats and the morning hugs,

Let them happen.

Let them all happen.~

~Donna Ashworth

art: VisualDreams.art

Tidiness

I totally agree. Living in a motel room going on my 3rd year , surgery etc has deterred me from accomplishing my room and bathroom .

After being robbed by cleaners who preformed a very well paid service , made me overly cautious about who is in my space .

Correctly I have help who is creating more open space as things I don’t need are stored as was the initial plan .

Dishes are a problem , they are rinsed and put in buckets to wash . So they are washed in the bath tub which is so low , I only take showers .

I’m 5’10 ” and sink and tub are designed for 5’ers ! My back is not strong for I sleep 😴 still in a medical bed ( very old ) on foam .

I was seeking help for my posture professionally , slept in a bed that I designed for excellent sleep and seeing a dentist for various dental issues made much worse by a highly toxic environment.

I do all I can, with what energy I have and I’m very Thankful 🙏 for the help I have .

I am giving things away ; though in the past I have given away things I needed to assure someone else has 💯🙌

So I’m more careful now and doing the very best that I can .

THE ENERGY OF A HOUSE

A messy messy house is not a happy place to live, it has negative energy and people who live there will be affected. Disorder gets in the way and stagnates, making it very difficult to continue on our ways.

The stress of searching for stuff causes anxiety, depression and confusion, hence the importance of throwing away or donating what we no longer need to give the house a new look. Your home is a reflection of your life, and that implies everything: physical, spiritual, emotional, labor, social and family.

Always remember that there is a place for everything and everything should be in its place, this helps to be in harmony and results in a better flow of energy. You must clean house and get rid of or reform everything that does not make us feel good, to make room for the new.

We shouldn’t accumulate things, but rather remove from home everything that doesn’t contribute, that doesn’t work or that you don’t like anymore. By getting rid of things that don’t contribute anything positive, the house loses negativity, makes space, and becomes much easier to clean, which is something important.

We should surround ourselves with things we enjoy, that bring good memories, that motivate us. Your home is you and your home is you. Our home is a reflection of ourselves, it tells us how we are at that moment, if we are stagnant, surrounded by so many things that contribute nothing and prevent us from seeing or having time for the most important, because you lose time looking stuff getting sorted or dusted

Let’s simplify our life and keep what’s really worthwhile. Lighting up your life makes you feel more free. Making decisions makes you feel more confident and responsible. Giving things makes you feel generous, and by organizing your space, you feel more organized and efficient.

It’s a way to free up space not only physical, but also mental, leaving room for new things to come in. That doesn’t mean throwing away things that remind us who we are, which is also important to have. Memories are the root of who we are, but what we accumulate that gives us nothing, must be removed from our home and our life.

Once you have purified everything you no longer need, you should follow the routine of order and cleaning to maintain a pleasant environment in our home, with habits like:

– Make your bed, the room will definitely look more tidy;

– Wash dishes whenever they arise, to prevent them from accumulating;

– Remove trash daily, to avoid bad smells;

– Put things in its place after use.

– Do daily routine cleaning.

A clean and organized environment conveys joy, peace and balance.

CTTRO ✍️🖼