Craig Childress PhD should be involved *
The aetiology of a child’s rejection of a parent is determined by the child’s presentation, meaning that the root cause of a child’s rejection, is displayed as markers in the child’s behaviours. A child who is rejecting a parent because of something that a parent has done to them, will do so in an ambivalent […]
When a Child Rejects a Parent: Practice and Theory with Alienated Children
As a stay at home Mom I had vision for my life , when each son was in school . My own business had great appeal and I had varied interest to consider .
Of course having a purpose in his life, meant doing what he wanted , which was a lot of being away from home and spending lots of money 💰if and when he chose .
It was important for him to align with the appearance of success and harmony.
I don’t feel that at any point in 21 years of being in the same home, when he was at home .. he wasn’t present ..
He is deeply defensive , and concerned for his happiness .
Never seeing the whole , bonded and dedicated to a partnership , ongoing , that sucks the positive energy from a relationship .
Never considering my needs , my need for action , and support I can assure you emotions never factored into an equation of self preservation on high .
So of course I never did enough .
My body responded to the distorted home life , the projected blame in silence.
Of course I was a monster Mom and must have earned that designation as an induced mental patient who was aware of treachery within the family , the abusive side effects on our children and the trauma.
21 years of his WAR , taking as many prisoners as possible and holding his position though its clear, his truth is neigh , force or choice .
Ignoring my effort to inform him of factual results , none more vital than allowing truth to heal wounds in each child , the multifaceted irregular and illegal truths are forced into light by a crisis .
I asked for 13k to take a course in integrated nutrition in 2005. Of course he said no, he had other priorities and overinflated income that was always spending more than coming in .
Failing to see the results of my ability to produce income and or hoping to keep me down on the economic scale is a reality .
That shows up in the divorce contract , signed when I was medicated into Bipolar ll , secreting the mental , physical , spiritual and financial abuse in a distortion that made me responsible for everything .
Medical and Legal were my responsibility .
The Virginia Supreme Court heard my case on that word responsible , and I lost .
Instead of asking for cost of living increases , the presentation was asking for an increase to cover medical insurance.
Insurance in 2005 was $300ish and Co pays which were going up.
Anthem Blue Cross took 3k from me , to being health insurance at 1k permonth. My 1st bill 2 weeks later was 3k and I decided to release AMA and medical insurance .
Anthem Blue Cross did not receive a claim from me , NOR did they refund my money .
The side effects of malignancy in a marriage are many including surviving the intended death , that a human being prefers in order to escape facts that allow healing for 4 adults and 6 grandchildren.
I have assured him of a conclusion of unfinished, unclarified business , extortion and leverage of children who deserve release and responsibility; who lost their Mom , were deprived of a safe foundation , taught to fear and hate Mom , for the WIN 🏆.
Current situations highlight this discord and distortion and I’m assured of closure and healing time to further my intentions in regard to a career. Vision and dreams of childhood have a part in my future, as well as intentions and dreams of my work , my spiritual and my physical will be in harmony .
The unfinished, the continued secrets , lies and intentions to divest me of any of progress as he’s benefited with each and every obstacle and has never felt obligated to assist , even after an agreement signed 4 years ago .
Motherhood , was destroyed in varied acts and lack of respect and support by a partner who remained BOSS man , lacking knowledge or a desire to be part of a whole , has no idea of partnership or a partners worth .
Only what a person offers , produces , negating the spirit and soul needs .
I have accepted my value , and with each example of abuse and delay in my Grand Design , I release more any attachment to anyone who continues to accept a version of me that does not exist and dishonors my essence .
I am worthy to create a new life freed of the responsibility of abuses and negatives that created Mom as past , and never to discuss past , or honor it.
https://www.baby-chick.com/study-says-motherhood-is-equivalent-to-working-2-5-full-time-jobs/
My experience , has been one
of being blamed and shamed
, targeted and told to do as I’m
told to gain access to son or
grandchildren , 2 I have never
met .
Like one of my 3 lawyers stated
“Dona they will do anything to
hurt you , be very careful , no
contact .”
Of course not offering me
protection legally and dropping
me , taking evidence critical
to an appeal before the
Virginia Supreme Court (2006)
She handed me over to my
abuser for which I sense she
was compensated or threatened
into.
Fear of God self , lack of empowerment, unhealed trauma, support in distortion allows this .
I just know I am better on my
own than invite opposition
and lower energies in my life.
Meet halfway in truth ..
Be a bridge not a tower
https://mirror-of-my-soul.com/2015/04/21/how-meeting-our-twin-flame-leads-us-to-god/
The eldest , long dark hair never knew her bio Dad . She was a very young child when uncle began his sex implantation /abuse which continued thru her adult life , regardless of status .
Trauma Bond
It is my belief that each of us were affected by her experience or initiation.
No boundaries as far a partners which has been a theme for siblings .
I did not buy into it and avoided all engagement in entaglents even as a child , to be corrupted by the sexual trauma bonds .
I had many close calls .
I had no memory of my own oral rape and effort to initiate me into this shadow .
For this , knowledge and my truths , I hold in a place of distortion , or witchery in their minds and hearts to blasphemy me for not accepting sex as a weapon or tool or addiction .
It was this that fed , my past experience within the distorted masculine I married and had 3 sons with .
Not only sexually fed , taking of my property , allowing my financial support …a sister stated that she was going to help me IF I did as told….
Dad had seen the same energy as I experienced and it adversely affected Mom and Dad’s marriage .
Mom ignored a lot and allowed infighting, power plays etc
It shows , up in adults .
Nothing was acknowledged by Mom for her brother’s rape of 2 of her daughters .
It seems all 5 children were sexually molested outside of our home and carried on the abuse within and without our home without my knowledge or comprehension until 2005ish
Taking charge of Dads estate after his years of widowed existence , was a power play for brothers who Stockholmed Dad as he mentally declined .
The estate suffered from their devilish deeds , I was given a 1/3 of what I should have received.
I’m quite sure Dad would not have set a will up that had 2 brothers deciding how to carry out his wishes .
Dad had Dementia and after his accident without oxygen , with COPD , he developed Hypoxia, the brain cells died .
He had end stage COPD
He had end stage heart disease .
I did not know, nor was I told any of this .
In caring for him , I had no support and lost in my effort to keep him safe and at peace in his own home to die .
Mom died at home due to a very high profile nursing home neglecting her urgent care needs .
Dad brought her home and she passed within days .
I have not had funds to take this matter before court.
Just as ex has controlled my income , for nefarious , self provoked greed , covering up their misdeeds, family caste me out , after he did totally and demure I am the witch , but they love me !
Eldest passed horribly , never healing trauma or seeking absolution or forgiveness.
She seldom crosses my mind , sadly , her behaviors had many shadow effects on me and I understand and released her long ago . No attempts were made on her part , after I responded to her effort to have me disconnect from Dad and share my inheritance in 2004.
A lot of devil energy exist in siblings , I totally separated from after buried Dad in Jan of 2013.
She passed within months .
Family Fail strengthened my resolve to know and do better .
Remaining sister offers help as with my eviction , then spirals into shadow that has allowed me harm , so after 2020 , I am in no contact.
My failure was in ignoring Intuitive messages and signs , falling for the mask that devil/shadow energy and trauma unhealed that is not my place nor desire to heal for anyone beyond my facts and truths offering .
Blessings & Peace
Dona Luna
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