I cannot force kids to see you / Alienated

‘I can’t force them to see you. It’s their choice.’ On the surface, it might seem like a reasonable statement, but the alienating parent’s behaviour and conditioning heavily influence the child’s ‘choice’. What’s actually being said is: ‘I’m in charge, and I get to decide if they see you or not; bad luck for you.’ This is one example of the emotional manipulation and coercive control that underlies parental alienation, which is abuse disguised as love and protection. ⁠

The idea that the alienating parent is not standing in the way of your relationship with your child is pure theatre. It’s an act. Behind the scenes, they’ve already given the child their lines and coached them into believing the character they’re supposed to play. Indoctrination, such as when a child is alienated and without justification for their rejection of you, is what’s happening. The child isn’t being given choices. They’re already been coercively controlled and enmeshed into an alignment with the alienating parent.⁠

A child’s expression of wishes holds such power and is often a deciding factor in proceedings concerning them, but it should be acknowledged as a voice, not a choice. Placing the child in a position where they must select one parent over the other goes beyond being inappropriate. Children often desire things at age 8 or 9 that they’d go nowhere near ten years later. I’ll give you an example. I thought it would be incredibly cool to be a lion tamer. Thankfully my parents didn’t think to put me in a lion’s den with a whip and a whistle, thinking that my needs must be met because this is what I believed was right for me. I also wanted to be able to fly, and they didn’t send me off to be operated on with wings attached to me surgically. Of course, children need to be heard, but they also have to be guided, nurtured, given boundaries while not being totally indoctrinated. Children might not know better than to wish for something detrimental to them, as in the case of being allowed to choose to reject a loved, loving parent, having been encouraged by the alienating parent to do so.

Research shows that many adults who, in their youth, rejected a parent, having been given a lot of pressure to do so by the other parent, later came to regret it and wished somebody would have had the sense to help them realise this was not a good idea – friends, family, legal or mental health professionals, anybody.

Taking, ‘it’s their choice’ at face value fails to recognise the extent of coercive control, psychological abuse, and manipulation at play, which can have profound negative effects on the child’s emotional development and well-being.

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Pink Full Moon in Scorpio

Tonight – The Pink Full Moon in Scorpio ♏️

This celestial event is shrouded in mystery and intensity, blending the mystical allure of the full moon with the transformative power of Scorpio. Falling within the astrological realm of Scorpio, this full moon infuses the night sky with a potent energy that invites deep reflection, emotional exploration, and profound transformation.

Scorpio, known for its depth, passion, and resilience, lends its enigmatic qualities to the Pink Full Moon, intensifying its impact on our lives and the cosmos. Under the influence of Scorpio’s penetrating gaze, the full moon becomes a mirror reflecting our innermost desires, fears, and secrets.

This lunar phase encourages us to delve into the depths of our psyche, confronting the shadows that lurk beneath the surface. It’s a time for emotional purging and spiritual rebirth as we release that which no longer serves us and embrace our innate power and authenticity.

The Pink Full Moon in Scorpio is also a catalyst for profound transformation and evolution. Like the mythical phoenix rising from the ashes, we are called to shed our old selves and emerge renewed, revitalized, and empowered. It’s a potent period for letting go of outdated patterns, beliefs, and attachments, allowing space for growth, healing, and metamorphosis.

In astrology, Scorpio is associated with themes of passion, intensity, and regeneration, and these qualities are magnified under the influence of the Pink Full Moon. Emotions run deep, relationships are imbued with heightened intimacy, and desires are ignited with fiery fervor.

As the Pink Full Moon illuminates the night sky in the enigmatic sign of Scorpio, it reminds us of the profound interconnectedness of all things and the infinite possibilities for transformation and renewal. It’s a time to embrace the depths of our being, confront our inner demons, and emerge stronger, wiser, and more authentically ourselves.

Ascending 4/22/24

To The Ascension LightWorker Collective

Earth offers an abundance of valuable learning and experiences for humanity, challenging us to transcend ingrained beliefs and false perceptions and programmes . Earth is a master class of learning .This is difficult work, It involves each ascending human to see and know them selves at the metaphysical level , beyond what they were made to feel and believe . Everything that is consciously programmed is stored in the human body .

This is why it can also feel challenging in many different and diverse ways . It is the unlearning that will take the longest , as we are clearing out everything from this life we consciously live in, this as well as all other lifetimes here that have also been affected . Everything is stored in our Akash , the storehouse of the Soul’s embodiment ,

Every event in life holds valuable significance and contributes to our overall growth and understanding. Our presence on Earth is planetary and purposeful, providing The ascending with endless opportunities and higher potential for personal and metaphysical development through the lessons and experiences that surround us.

Major shifts are expected to continue throughout this month, as the new earth energy is greatly intensifying with the onset of a 3-day solar storm eruption . As we move toward the end of this month, the frequency and intensity of the incoming energies are expected to increase, leading to significant changes in many Ascending .

For some ascending individuals it may now be necessary to slow down and let the new earth energy work positively for the higher purpose now in place . Taking enough time to rejuvenate, reflecting on past progress, and healing any surface residue from the past self .

This point of the ascension transformational process is about seeking balance and alignment as the old self continues to fade out of the exisiting paradigm , creating space for new beginnings and for the expansion and expression of the true self . Higher self activations are on going for the Ascending Starseeds .

In times of significant transformation, you may lose connections with certain individuals. This is most likely because you are no longer aligned with their inner vibrations, and are now moving forward . This is highly beneficial for your ascension growth , spiritual maturity and metaphysical development. Learning from all experiences and continuing on your conscious journey.

You will eventually connect with others on your path of ascension light, there will be ascension minded others coming in who will share your vibrational frequencies and who will genuinely support you, without ego interference, as you pursue living from a Metaphysical expression here on Ascending loving earth , Ascending collective together with Gaia are celebrating this planetary progression.

In the upcoming days and weeks, you may experience different changes in your physical body due to the recent Solar Eclipse which had a big impact on the electromagnetic field of our planet, this mar lead to changes in your physical and energetic bodies and auric fields ,

Remaining extra hydrated will help prevent headaches, eating when your body needs to this can alleviate nausea, and grounding through deep earth connected exercises will help ease anxiety. The key for us all is to listen to the physical body closely as its needs may now possibly change during these transformational releases , downloads recalibrations , alignments and activations.

There may be the Starseeds at this time currently experiencing a void period feeling placed in the universal womb undergoing shifts in perceptions , truths and reality according to the past actions and choices made . The months of May and June will bring significant changes to all ascending lives with more inevitable endings as well as many new opportunities and beginnings. Whatever changes made now will be essential and required to be led towards the highest soul’s purpose and destiny .

Many Starseeds have already integrated most of their activations in the last few days leading up to this point. They may now be undergoing anither conscious life review, which also occurs at the time of death when the soul leaves the body and returns to Source. However, this life review is different because it focuses on your past and present experiences and interactions with other people while alive on Earth.

This life review greatly assists in the healing of the mental and emotional bodies, nervous system , it highlights lessons learned, higher perceived understanding personal accomplishments, and areas that need improvement. This past life review is an integral part of the ascension process in human form.

Realising that the reality we live in is not as it has been portrayed is not an easy task. The alternative to awakening is to remain asleep and continue to be controlled by others and their false agendas. The ascending are clearing more of the brain fog the cognitive impairment from false perceptions are clearing and healing .This awakens the ascending to more truth with clarity and higher wisdom and understanding .

However, awakening does come at a cost.

It requires questioning all internal beliefs, facing the most uncomfortable truths, and making challenging choices. It requires to feel physical pain at times depending on how much one is clearing at one time .

it also provides the opportunity to break free from external control , heal inner duality and live a fulfilling life guided by higher self in personal choices and your free will to Ascend past the false matrix .

When all of this unlearning is over, we will meet each other anew. Stronger, wiser, connected to source , the higher self expressing the soul’s reflection , living in a truthful reality, able to fully enjoy and appreciate the meaningful in life , holding on to the people , situations , all things that have the greatest value .

The purpose of Lightworkers and Starseed souls is not to avoid darkness. Rather they are here to use the illuminating power of Divine love to transform the darkness into light. They are imbued with divine energy to bring the unique gifts , skill sets and abilities to shift collective consciousness towards love, healing , compassion and unity, despite the challenges that they have faced and may still face.

LightWorker / Starseeds are selfless souls always putting the well being of others first .The LightWorkers / Starseeds however are self love deficient , overcoming this will be their most challenging aspect in this lifetime and are already making incredible progress .This is what is accelerating the collective consciousness on this planet : they are the pillars of light here holding the energy for us all .Together with Gaia and loving Ascension .

The Ascending individuals role on the planet is to fully transform and heal the existing residual aspects of conditioning , this is to inspire the self and to empower others in their conscious awakening and healing journey, promoting higher vibrations of love and compassionate consciousness into the world .

Love, Light and Divine blessings .

In loving and dedicated light worker / Starseed service : Source Inspiration Ascension Lightworkers ©️