Tag: betrayal

Cheaters

Men don’t cheat because of what you lack—they cheat because of who they are. You could be the most loving, caring, and supportive partner, but if a man has it in him to be unfaithful, he will be, no matter what you do.
A woman could give her all—emotionally, mentally, and physically—and still get played because cheating isn’t about the partner; it’s about the cheater’s morals, self-control, and respect for the relationship. A man who truly values and respects you will never make you feel like you have to prove your worth to keep him loyal. He won’t step out just because times get tough, the excitement fades, or another opportunity presents itself. He’ll stay committed because he knows the importance of trust and cherishes what he has.
Loyalty isn’t something you should have to beg for. A man who genuinely loves and values you will never put you in a position to question your worth over his lack of discipline. The right man won’t risk losing a good woman for a moment of weakness. His loyalty won’t depend on how well you treat him—it will be a reflection of the standards he holds for himself.

Betrayal

LOVE DIES WHEN YOU ARE BETRAYED.

My friends ask me, “How did you make him forget you so fast?”

How can I stop loving you if you were my whole life?

How come I never mentioned your name again?

Within two seconds, the answer is:

Love dies when you are betrayed—when you are stabbed in the back, admiration for that person turns to dust.

Beautiful memories rot when you discover their true face. When you see their falseness, love turns into disgust as every lie is revealed.

You become so disappointed that you go from loving to despising.

Love can survive absence, distance, death, sickness, even poverty.

But it cannot survive betrayal, lies, doubts, distrust, or deep disappointment.