Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

Love

“My best friend once asked me: “How can you tell if a person genuinely loves you?” I replied: “Maybe you just feel it. Maybe through the effort they put in your bond”

He said: “Time. You know that a person loves you by how much time they give you. When a person decides to sit and see you cry for hours rather than being somewhere else. The phone calls, The long conversations, The texts. No one would voluntarily invest their time in you over and over if they didn’t genuinely love you.” And that has been one of my major standards for love ever since.”

~ Alya Omran

Bring the best part of you

If you want your life to have true value,

bring a gift to the world.

Bring your love, not your fear.

Bring your compassion, not your hatred.

Bring your joy, not your suffering.

Bring your optimism, not your doubt.

Bring your beautiful, already free, smiling presence.

Bring your open loving heart so that all beings everywhere will feel your goodness, and when you pass they too will smile and share their joy.

Some things are better left sleeping while other things will nourish the universe.

If you want your life to have value, bring the best part of you to the world ..

Michael Kewley ✨

Artist Credit : Deborah Nell

Parasitic Narcissist

You didn’t lose the love of your life, you lost a parasite that was draining your life.

Narcissists are not soulmates; they are predators in disguise, and understanding this is crucial to your healing.

The person you see at the end of the relationship is who they really are.

Their true nature was hidden behind a facade of charm, charisma, and manipulation.

You were lured with false promises, false emotions and a convincing act.

Though underneath it all, they were feeding off your emotional energy, shattering your self-esteem, and eroding your sense of self.

What you experienced wasn’t love; it was a toxic cycle of abuse where every day felt like a battle for survival.

Their gaslighting, emotional blackmail, and their constant criticism were not signs of affection; they were tools of control and domination.

Their infidelity, deceit, and lack of empathy were not simple mistakes; they were deliberate actions to exploit your vulnerabilities.

You didn’t lose a loved one, you escaped a toxic nightmare.

You broke free from a cycle of abuse, and that takes incredible courage, strength and resilience. Narcissists are incapable of genuine love; they only imitate it to get what they want.

To heal, you must accept the truth: you weren’t loved, you were used.

You were a source of supply, a means to an end, and a pawn in your manipulative game.

Although now, you are free to rediscover yourself, embrace true love, and live a life filled with purpose, joy, and authenticity.

You deserve real love, genuine connection and healthy relationships.

You deserve to be seen, heard and understood. You deserve to be valued, respected and appreciated. Never Settling For Anything Less.

You are worthy of love, and it will find you when you least expect it 💜

Love never dies

Cruel and cold like winds on the sea

Will you ever return to me

Hear my voice sing with the tide

My love will never die

Over waves and deep in the blue

I will give up my heart for you

Ten long years I’ll wait to go by

My love will never die

Come, my love, be one with the sea

Rule with me for eternity

Drown all dreams so mercilessly

And leave their souls to me

Play the song you sang long ago

And wherever the storm may blow

You will find the key to my heart

We’ll never be apart

Wild and strong you can’t be contained

Never bound nor ever chained

Wounds you caused will never mend

And you will never end

Cruel and cold like winds on the sea

will you ever return to me

Hear my voice sing with the tide

Our love will never die…

Hades Muse

Vintage Angel Art – Artist Unknown

Hearts know how to heal💯❤️

“Your heart will fix itself. It’s your mind you need to worry about. Your mind where you locked the memories, your mind where you have kept pieces of the ones that hurt you, that still cut through you like shards of glass. Your mind will keep you up at night, make you cry, destroy you over and over again. You need to convince your mind that it has to let go … because your heart already knows how to heal.”

– Nikita Gill

[Image: Circe Invidiosa (Jealous Circe)(1892) oil on canvas by British painter John William Waterhouse (1849-1916). Art Gallery of South Australia, Adelaide.]

About the Painting:

Circe, an enchantress, is a figure from Greek mythology, who appears in Homer’s Odyssey. This painting depicts a scene not from the Odyssey, though, but from Ovid’s Metamorphoses. Here, a jealous Circe casts a magic potion into the well where Scylla, her rival in love, will bathe.

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Overwhelming Femininity

“It’s just that you’re not that feminine.”

I beg to differ.

I’m feminine like a thunderstorm.

Feminine like the glint of a falcon talon.

Feminine like an ancient redwood.

Feminine like the orange glow of a grizzly bear in the sunset.

Feminine like a wolf on the hunt.

Feminine like decaying bones.

Feminine like the eye of an old whale.

Feminine like a roaring river.

Feminine like a sheer cliff overlooking a forest.

Feminine like a wildfire.

Feminine like a desert wind.

Feminine like a battle cry.

And yes.

Within my stones and bark and fur and fierce slit irises… I am as soft and enveloping as any woman who’s blood ever beat red.

This is the Sovereigness.

I am her.

We are her.

We are an age of woman who has come in, representing the medicine of the Wilds.

We are not built to actualize your sense of masculinity through your traditional idea of femininity.

We are built to bring in the voice of our Mother.

Which is why Earth herself screams in our veins.

So, if what you really mean is,

“Your femininity is overwhelming”,

Then I understand.

It is to me, too.

~ Adrianne Tamar Arachne

Over whelming femininity

“It’s just that you’re not that feminine.”

I beg to differ.

I’m feminine like a thunderstorm.

Feminine like the glint of a falcon talon.

Feminine like an ancient redwood.

Feminine like the orange glow of a grizzly bear in the sunset.

Feminine like a wolf on the hunt.

Feminine like decaying bones.

Feminine like the eye of an old whale.

Feminine like a roaring river.

Feminine like a sheer cliff overlooking a forest.

Feminine like a wildfire.

Feminine like a desert wind.

Feminine like a battle cry.

And yes.

Within my stones and bark and fur and fierce slit irises… I am as soft and enveloping as any woman who’s blood ever beat red.

This is the Sovereigness.

I am her.

We are her.

We are an age of woman who has come in, representing the medicine of the Wilds.

We are not built to actualize your sense of masculinity through your traditional idea of femininity.

We are built to bring in the voice of our Mother.

Which is why Earth herself screams in our veins.

So, if what you really mean is,

“Your femininity is overwhelming”,

Then I understand.

It is to me, too.

~ Adrianne Tamar Arachne

Art Unknown

Alienated child & rejection

An alienated child feels autonomous because their aligned parent’s psychological tactics are often subtle. The alienating parent may use ‘leading questions’ such as ‘Are you sure you want to be with them for such a long time away from home?’ They can use passive-aggressive language such as, ‘It’s a shame they make you feel so angry when they behave as they do, and you’re so good about it.’ It can seem caring and concerned rather than coercive and controlling. The child also develops a strong sense of loyalty and alignment with the alienating parent due to the fear of losing their love, approval, or the stability of the family unit. They can become ‘trauma bonded’ in an emotionally abusive relationship, often due to intermittent reinforcement, manipulation and a cycle of reward and punishment. They may feel autonomous because they’ve internalised the beliefs and narratives of the alienating parent. Often they justify their actions and maintain a positive self-image by convincing themselves that their rejection of the targeted parent is valid. Accepting the reality that the alienating parent acted out of selfish motives and not in the child’s best interests can be extremely distressing and conflicting. It may require them to confront the fact that they were manipulated and used as a pawn in the alienating parent’s agenda. This can be psychologically overwhelming. They can feel incredibly betrayed, sad, guilty, and ashamed, but they can overcome this. They can break free and truly become autonomous when they accept that they were not previously. It is hard to accept, but the key to their liberation and healing.

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