Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

Warren Buffet on Housing

Someone with BlackRock and others must have heard Buffet’s housing statements and now own many homes. A GOP person around 2020 that it was planned to buy homes in whole suburbs , in order to stop the ethnic races from buying.

I don’t like nor trust Warren Buffet $$$$

Warren Buffett said he’d buy a couple hundred thousand single family homes if he could, and he’d take out mortgages to do it.

In 2012, Warren Buffett made headlines with his bold commentary on the housing market during an interview on CNBC’s Squawk Box with Becky Quick.

At the time, the U.S. economy was still recovering from the devastating effects of the 2008 financial crisis and the housing market was one of the sectors with the most impact. Yet, Buffett’s perspective was unusually optimistic. He famously stated, “If I had a way of buying a couple hundred thousand single-family homes and had a way of managing them … I would load up on them. I would take mortgages out at very, very low rates.” For Buffett, homes were not just shelter but a prime investment opportunity, especially with borrowing costs at rock-bottom lows.

This insight came when confidence in real estate was shaky at best and many people hesitated to dive back into the market. However, for Buffett, the crisis created a window of opportunity that savvy investors could capitalize on if they had the foresight and patience.

His well-known quote, “Be fearful when others are greedy. Be greedy when others are fearful,” perfectly captured the mindset needed to navigate that turbulent time. Investors who followed this advice likely saw significant rewards as the market rebounded.

For example, in 2012, the median price for a single-family home in the U.S. was around $180,000. By 2024, that number reached about $418,000. That’s a jump of roughly 132% over 12 years. No one has a crystal ball to predict what the market will do, but real estate has proven to be a steady and stable way of building wealth.

its simplicity. He recommended buying homes with a 30-year mortgage, arguing that homes would outperform even stocks if purchased at the right price over the long term.

Over the years, the billionaire investor has consistently praised the 30-year mortgage. In a 2017 CNBC interview, he said, “It’s a one-way renegotiation. It is an incredibly attractive instrument for the homeowner and you’ve got a one-way bet.” If the rates go down, refinance and pay off the home early. If they go up, you’re locked in.

Fast-forward to 2024 and it’s clear why Buffett’s advice has endured. The housing market has changed dramatically since 2012, with home prices surging in many regions and interest rates rising after years of historical lows. In today’s market, buying “a couple hundred thousand homes” might sound like a distant fantasy for the average investor.

As interest rates fluctuate and many prospective homeowners face uncertainty about where the housing market is headed, Buffett’s advice to think long-term remains as relevant as ever. Holding properties for the long haul, rather than trying to time the market, is a strategy that still pays dividends.

Sage relationship advice

NON-NEGOTIABLE ACTS IN COUPLE

1. Always be faithful. Even if your partner has not been with you, don’t pay with the same coin. Respect yourself, don’t trample on your dignity and don’t make excuses or justify on the mistakes of the other person to clean up and justify your own decisions. Be honest above all. Don’t lie to yourself.

2. Don’t let your mind deceive you. Everything starts from the mind, control it; Example: “We’re just friends”, “Just a call”, “A little message”, “A coffee”, “It’s just work things”.

Lies! It’s the trap of deception. Be with integrity and loyal .

3. Don’t do to your partner what you wouldn’t want done to you. Respecting and respecting each other is key.

4. Don’t ignore or hide anything from your partner. Don’t give more importance to virtual “friendships” that will never be with you. The time you lose on the cell phone and social networks, apply it to living with your partner, in quality time. That has caused a lot of problems and breakdowns. Value and keep the peace in your relationship.

5. Never block the communication This is critical to conflict resolution. Learn to communicate, to listen, don’t interrupt, give space for your partner to express themselves without bothering you. Look for solutions, don’t provoke rocks just because you don’t like what you hear. Remember they are two and both should bring opinions and suggestions not just you.

6. Don’t sell out your mate. Don’t tell your partner’s intimacies to your female friends or friends.

7. Don’t be silent. Do not apply the ice law. Speak when you are calm; do not stop talking to your partner, do not build walls of pride and coldness.

8. Don’t go to bed angry. So you have anger and pain, give yourself forgiveness before sleeping. Let humility and love prevail.

9. Never shout under any circumstances.

10. Don’t exaggerate. (“Is that you always”, “is that you never”).

11. Don’t make important decisions alone; without agreeing (business, money, schools, changes, travel). Everything must be agreed and in a team.

12. If they already have kids, don’t fight in front of them. That causes psychological trauma and creates patterns of behavior that they will repeat as adults.

13. Don’t abuse the nobility of your partner. Don’t leave them more to do, don’t load their hand.

14. Don’t speak ill of your partner to third parties. Don’t ridicule her when she’s present; for example: “she snores horribly”, “she doesn’t know how to cook”, “she’s a bad friend”, “bad pay”, “drunk”, “bad lover”, “smells bad”. That’s psychological violence and you only project your own miseries.

15. Don’t lose sight of the details, nice words, be presentable to the couple, flatter, reinforce day to day.

16. Don’t refuse forgiveness when asked.

17. Think about separation when there are beating, physical and psychological abuse. May your life be in danger. Let there be infidelity; where respect and dignity is being lost for yourself.

18. Don’t talk about the past of either of you; who you dated, who you hung out with, don’t keep any communication with those people anymore. That’s past, respect your new relationship. And less bringing old fights or discussions into new problems, that is reopening the fight.

19. Don’t make comparisons between spouse and children, with other partners, children, friendships or acquaintances.

20. Build love together; talk, resolve, share, respect, understand, validate, not hide.

Magical

We all start out knowing magic. We are born with whirlwinds, forest fires, and comets inside us. We are born able to sing to birds and read the clouds and see our destiny in grains of sand.

But then we get the magic educated right out of our souls. We get it churched out, spanked out, washed out, and combed out. We get put on the straight and narrow and told to be responsible. Told to act our age. Told to grow up, for God’s sake. And you know why we were told that? Because the people doing the telling were afraid of our wildness and youth, and because the magic we knew made them ashamed and sad of what they’d allowed to wither in themselves.

~ Robert R. McCammon