Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

Let go of people unprepared to love you 😘

“Let go the people who are not prepared to love you. This is the hardest thing you will have to do in your life and it will also be the most important thing. Stop having hard conversations with people who don’t want change.

Best gifts for your loved ones

Stop showing up for people who have no interest in your presence. I know your instinct is to do everything to earn the appreciation of those around you, but it’s a boost that steals your time, energy, mental and physical health.

When you begin to fight for a life with joy, interest and commitment, not everyone will be ready to follow you in this place. This doesn’t mean you need to change what you are, it means you should let go of the people who aren’t ready to accompany you.

If you are excluded, insulted, forgotten or ignored by the people you give your time to, you don’t do yourself a favor by continuing to offer your energy and your life. The truth is that you are not for everyone and not everyone is for you.

That’s what makes it so special when you meet people who reciprocate love. You will know how precious you are.

The more time you spend trying to make yourself loved by someone who is unable to, the more time you waste depriving yourself of the possibility of this connection to someone else.

There are billions of people on this planet and many of them will meet with you at your level of interest and commitment.

The more you stay involved with people who use you as a pillow, a background option or a therapist for emotional healing, the longer you stay away from the community you want.

Maybe if you stop showing up, you won’t be wanted. Maybe if you stop trying, the relationship will end. Maybe if you stop texting your phone will stay dark for weeks. That doesn’t mean you ruined the relationship, it means the only thing holding it back was the energy that only you gave to keep it. This is not love, it’s attachment. It’s wanting to give a chance to those who don’t deserve it. You deserve so much, there are people who should not be in your life.

The most valuable thing you have in your life is your time and energy, and both are limited. When you give your time and energy, it will define your existence.

When you realize this, you begin to understand why you are so anxious when you spend time with people, in activities, places or situations that don’t suit you and shouldn’t be around you, your energy is stolen.

You will begin to realize that the most important thing you can do for yourself and for everyone around you is to protect your energy more fiercely than anything else. Make your life a safe haven, in which only ′′compatible′′ people are allowed.

You are not responsible for saving anyone. You are not responsible for convincing them to improve. It’s not your work to exist for people and give your life to them! If you feel bad, if you feel compelled, you will be the root of all your problems, fearing that they will not return the favours you have granted. It’s your only obligation to realize that you are the love of your destiny and accept the love you deserve.

Decide that you deserve true friendship, commitment, true and complete love with healthy and prosperous people. Then wait and see how much everything begins to change. Don’t waste time with people who are not worth it. Change will give you the love, the esteem, happiness and the protection you deserve”

~ Brianna Weist

Resonance

“Notice the term resonance comes from the Latin verb ‘resonare,’ meaning to “return to sound”. It means to sound and resound, as in an echo. The point of existence is to activate and resonate with the core template embedded in DNA. Every human being is an antenna and tuning fork for energies coming from the Great Central Sun. The more we live in integrity with true nature, the longer lasting and more expansive the experience of resonance, the more conscious and frequent synchronicities appear, and the more ecstatic we are as musical notes moving up the cosmic scale. Our language is full of plays on words that resonate. “Being in tune with true being” is being “on the same wave length” as what really matters. It’s why silence is the loudest voice that aligns everything to the tone of deepest being when one is ready to listen.” – Liara Covert

Come find me

Come find me when you’re ready to shed the masks you’ve worn to protect yourself from the world. When the walls you’ve built around your heart start to feel more like a cage than a sanctuary. Come find me when you’re done playing hide and seek with your emotions, pretending you don’t feel what you feel. When you’ve outgrown the games that used to distract you from what you really want—when what you crave is connection, not just attention.

Come find me when you realize that love is not just a word, but a responsibility—a willingness to show up fully, even when it’s hard, even when it scares you. When you’re ready to embrace something deeper, something more profound than the fleeting thrill of the chase. Come find me when you’re tired of empty conversations and shallow connections, when you’re ready to build something with roots, something that can withstand the storms of life.

Come find me when you’re searching for quality over quantity, when you’ve stopped measuring your worth by the number of people you can impress and started valuing the ones who truly see you. When you’re ready to stop chasing temporary thrills and start cultivating something lasting.

Come find me when you’re no longer afraid to be vulnerable—when you understand that true strength lies in being seen, in showing your scars, your fears, your hopes, and your dreams. When you know that love is not about perfection, but about two people choosing each other, again and again, through the mess and the beauty.

Come find me when you’re ready to build something real—when the need for love outweighs the need for ego, when you’re willing to let go of your fears and dive into the unknown. I’ll be here, waiting, for the person who’s ready for all that love can be.

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Don’t drift too far from your inner child

Don’t drift too far from the child you used to be—the one who found joy in the smallest things, like chasing shadows or watching clouds form shapes in the sky.

Hold on to that curiosity, the way everything felt new and exciting. One day, when life feels overwhelming and happiness seems out of reach, that part of you can remind you of the little things that once made you feel so alive.

Sometimes, we get caught up in responsibilities, ticking off lists and chasing deadlines, forgetting the simple joys we used to cherish. Remember how the smell of rain could brighten your mood or how staring at the stars made everything seem possible? Those moments—often overlooked now—are the ones that brought you the purest happiness. It’s easy to lose that magic as we grow older, but that child inside is still there, waiting to remind you that life is about more than just getting through the day.

It’s about finding small wonders that still have the power to make you feel alive.

~ LJ Blossoms, Writer’s Blossoms

~ Art ‘Keeping Her Dreams Alive’ by Shawna Erback

Remember Me

When you remember me, it means that you have carried something of who I am with you, that I have left some mark of who I am on who you are. It means that you can summon me back to your mind even though countless years and miles may stand between us. It means that if we meet again, you will know me. It means that even after I die, you can still see my face and hear my voice and speak to me in your heart.

For as long as you remember me, I am never entirely lost.

~ Frederick Buechner

~ Art by Shawna Erback

Priorities

“The day you manage to stay calm

In front of whoever provokes you

The day you manage to stay calm

In the face of the storm

When your silence is the right answer

In the face of noise & foolish words

Then you will have achieved

The greatest of your successes

It is no longer about winning or losing

Being better or worse

Having what you desired

Or not having what you coveted

It is not even about triumphing over others

It is about the fact that

Finally, you have reached the top of a very high mountain✔️

It is to conquer you

Prioritize yourself

Put your mental health first

Your emotional intelligence

Observe & look around you

Don’t judge anymore

Just observe the unhappiness

The lack of self-esteem

The burdens & pains that others carry

Learn to be aware of the lives of others

The more you love yourself

The less you will care about others’ opinions of you

The more you love yourself

The more you will focus on improving yourself & only you.”

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Artist: Andrea Kowch

Pairing by Whispers from the Heart

Love ❤️ & Maturity

“Man goes from one woman to another, goes on changing. People think he is a great lover; he is not a lover at all. He is avoiding, he is trying to avoid any deep involvement because with deep involvement problems have to be faced, and much pain has to be gone through. So one simply plays safe; one makes it a point never to go too deeply into somebody.

If you go too deep you may not be able to come back easily. And if you go deeply into somebody, somebody else will go deeply into you also; it is always proportionate. If I go very deep in you the only way is to allow you also to go that deep in me. It is a give and take, it is a sharing. Then one may get entangled too much, and it will be difficult to escape and the pain may be much. So people learn how to play safe: just let surfaces meet — hit-and-run love affairs. Before you are caught, run.

This is what is happening in the modern world. People have become so juvenile, so childish; they are losing all maturity.

Maturity comes only when you are ready to face the pain of your being; maturity comes only when you are ready to take the challenge. And there is no greater challenge than love.”

~Osho

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Craig Childress PsyD – Flowing

I met with my intern today. I have an official intern, did you know that?

She’s an under-grad UW student. I hired her to help me organize some tasks. She then applied to UW to make my job an internship placement for course credit and I agreed.

I have an official intern. She’s learning about a clinical psychologist’s forensic practice. My-oh-my, just imagine. She’s learning some interesting things.

I have obligations now because she’s more than an employee being paid for a job, she’s getting course credit for learning educational things about a psychologist’s practice in the family courts – so – I’m providing educational opportunities for her to learn.

Oh my. Do you think that’s safe? She’ll be learning about what’s here… from me… I’m not sure that’s wise…. but I’m happy to do it.

I meet with my intern helper human every Friday for our staff/supervision meeting. She’s an under-grad student taking classes with tests, so she only has a few hours for me.

She has three domains of task to move forward:

1) Publication – assist with formatting and submitting an article I’ve written,

2) Catalogue – assist with publication of the Catalogue of Concerns through Kindle Direct,

3) YouTube: assist with reverse-writing articles and books from the audio-visual books of the YouTube videos I record.

The first time she completes each task serves as the prototype pathway for the next one – and next one – and next one. Each repetition is easier and easier.

She’s not doing tasks, she’s constructing the path to do the tasks, then… we can do the tasks.

For YouTube, my plan is to reverse-write articles and books. Most current thinking moves in one direction, whereas my thinking moves the other way.

I’m going to need a tech-assistant at some point – that’ll make three humans around me – my calendar – my intern – and my tech. I’m multiplying me.

Currently, your-type books are first printed as print-books and then are audio recorded as audio books. I’m going the other way.

I’m starting with the audio-visual book on YouTube, then I’ll be having my intern extract the transcript for editing and subsequent print publication in a print book format or as a journal article submission.

I’m sort of dictating books to YouTube to then edit the transcript. That’s my plan. So I hired a helper person to help with my plan while I do what I do.

She turned her work with me into course credit for her at her university – so – she’s learning about you now for course credit. I’m… explaining things that are here.

She’s comprehending things that are here. Oh my. My goal is to enlist her assistance in translating knowledge from my brain to print. I’m busy with other things.

It’s a super-sweet position for an under-grad, she’s a lucky human. She has a paid internship (that’s super-rare) where she has the opportunity to learn how to format and submit articles for publication – and – the opportunity for possible joint authorship on something as second (or first) author.

You can’t plagiarize me if I’m a joint author. She’ll be helping me with the Catalogue of Concerns. She’ll be helping me with my solo-article. There’s so many interesting facets of here.

Pick one. Any one that calls to you. Write a class paper and then submit it as an article. If you use mostly my words, then you’re second author and I’m first.

If it comes from an interest in you and it’s mostly your words, then your first and I’m second author. What a sweet opportunity for an under-grad senior.

Focus on school and tests and graduation… and a side project, an internship that will be excellent on applications. Such a wonderful opportunity.

I’m glad to help. I need something done. Universe, I need a helper-human…. “Here.”

Thanks.

We set some basic goals at today’s meeting for the upcoming fall. My broad goal is by the start of December to have an article ready for submission, and a print-ready Catalogue of Concerns.

We won’t get there, but we’ll be close if we’re not there quite then.

That’s called a “strange attractor” in a chaotic flow. I placed an attractor out ahead in time that will pull to an organization.

When we reach the attractor, we’ll reorganize and do it again to get closer, and closer, and closer to wherever we want to be. Once you learn to use attractors to organize flows in chaos, movement though chaos becomes relatively easy.

Organize the attractor, the plan, the goal, then throw it out ahead. You don’t know the skills yet of constructing attractors, your goals don’t attract and your plans don’t work – because your attractors are not properly constructed.

It’s a skill. More of a craft. Creating a good strange attractor and locating it out ahead in time is a craft of skill. I’ll teach you someday if we have the time.

Things are coming. Things are changing. We are on a linear path. Today is not like yesterday, and tomorrow will be different than today. That’s what change means – different.

I wait in pause for the universal waveform to collapse into spin-Harris or spin-Trump, do we ascend or descend? Once I know the directional flow, I’ll adjust to the flowing.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.

Clinical Psychologist, PSY 18857

5th Dimension Opportunity

There are currently unprecedented opportunities for ascension to the fifth dimension… Why?

Since the fall of Atlantis ten thousand years ago our planet has become very dense and dominated by masculine energy. The reason we fell into such a dark space was two-fold. First we were a plane of free will and no one anticipated we would use it to cause such destruction. Secondly Earth is the solar plexus chakra of the universe and so we have taken in and transmuted the fear of this entire universe.

So our progress lagged behind the rest of the cosmos.

In 2012 at the Cosmic Moment the light of Source touched the hearts of every sentient being in this and every other universe. Each one started a 20 year journey to ascend to a higher dimensional frequency. In the case of Earth we had to move from the third to the fifth dimension.

Because of this beings from everywhere, including angels, unicorns, dragons and Wise Illumined Beings are coming here to assist us. We are on a very fast learning curve with a great deal of help.

Ancient ascension techniques and tools are being returned to us to accelerate our ascension. The new Golden Age of Aquarius starts in 2032.