Tag: wisdoms

Jerry Polvernio USA rating / stats

This is why the average American is so out of touch with reality. This is why we think we are in the land of the free, when actually, America has more people in jail that any other nation on earth. This is why we think gun control won’t work when it actually works beautifully in many places all over the world.

This is why people live in the fantasy worlds of religion and beliefs, rather than the reality of facts and science.

This is why we believe our healthcare is the best in the world when actually it ranks last.

This is why we think we have the highest standard of living with actually are way down the list.

This is why the government fools us into going to war after war, while claiming we are a nation of peace.

This is why the average American has a poor idea of reality, and the rest of the world.

Why the Narcissist cannot sit still..

Oh that was so predominate in he and his Mom.. left me feeling nervous too often , sensing judgement with every aspect of who I am . I’m calmer and don’t feel I should feel so grateful to be in your presence , that I have to emulate , or impress or worship you .

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Kim Saeed Truths in authentic care

Often, what seems like mixed signals are not mixed at all. We just try to label them that way.

A person who genuinely cares about you will not take chances on losing you.

When a person sends what you think are mixed signals, it’s actually a clear statement that they don’t care what happens because they’re not invested in a relationship with you.

The only question now is whether you’re going to settle for that.

No need to play detective.

No need to call your friends.

No need to see if they’re on a dating app but not messaging you.

No need to send a smiley emoji to “innocently” check in on them.

If you’ve been involved with someone for a while and are still unsure where you stand, that is a clear signal.

A person who wants you will make sure you know it because they don’t want to lose you to someone else.

If you’re not getting a clear “YES,” then that is a clear ‘NO.’

Recovery from narcissistic abuse includes learning to stop accepting crumbs. Believe it or not, there are people out there in the world who would want you in their life. But it requires getting rid of the users and manipulators first to make space for the stand-up person who could be your genuine partner.

You don’t need to settle. Mixed signalers and breadcrumbers are not the last people on earth. It’s time to stop treating them as if they are.

#youareenough #youareworthy #selfhealers #reallove #lifebeginsafternocontact

Note to self

“Give yourself more credit.

You’re trying to grow while trying to heal. You’re trying to forgive while trying to grieve. You’re trying to search while trying to let go. And you’re trying to love others while remembering how to love yourself.

You are doing the best you can.”

—Vex King

#NoteToSelf

artwork by Lisa Lach-Nielsen