Tag: wisdoms

Authentic Closeness vs Co- Dependence

The difference between CO-DEPENDENCE and AUTHENTIC CLOSENESS

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Codependency: I need you to feel good, otherwise I don’t feel good.

Authentic closeness: I allow you to experience what you experience without feeling the need to change or fix it. You are your own master.

Codependency: I need you to support me, and if you don’t, I will make you feel guilty in a more overt or more subtle way.

Authentic closeness: When I need support, I ask others for it, not just my partner, and I don’t get angry if they can’t give it to me the way I need it.

Codependency: If you don’t do what I want, I will make you feel guilty and ashamed.

Authentic Intimacy: I accept you as you are, while having clear standards about how a person can treat and talk to me.

Codependency: You have to know what I need. It’s not the same at all, if I have to explain it to you.

Authentic Intimacy: I communicate openly and will never blame you for my own lack of courage to tell you what I want and need.

Codependency: True love means being faithful no matter what.

Authentic Intimacy: I have my own personal boundaries and standards for how a person can treat and talk to me, and I will clearly share them with you with love.

Codependency: You have a lot of problems and I will help you overcome them. Only in this way can I feel that I am valuable, worthwhile and needed.

Authentic closeness: I am already valuable and valuable. I’m not here to be my partner’s therapist, help him get better, or be his nanny.

Codependency: I need you and you need me.

Authentic closeness: I choose to be with you every day and you choose to be with me.

Codependency: I can’t do without you.

Authentic intimacy: I like spending time alone.

And I love being with you. ❤️

Never trust the words of a Narcissist

Never trust the words of a narcissist.

They’ll present themselves as people of high morals—righteous, honorable, even godly. But in reality, whatever they claim to be is simply what they expect from you.

They don’t apply the same standards to themselves.

The double standard is very real.

And here’s the truth:

Nothing is more frightening than realizing the man you’re with is not the man you started out with.

The mask slips. Their words stop aligning with their actions. And suddenly, you’re left staring at someone you don’t even recognize.

This is why you can’t trust what they say.

Watch their actions. 👀

Words are cheap to a narcissist. Their actions? That’s where the truth is hiding.

If you’re seeing this pattern, hear me now:

You are not crazy. You are not alone. And there is life beyond the chaos.

#WordsOfSteele #TruthPrevails #ShatteredSilence #BoldAndUnbreakable #WinningInTheEnd #StayStrong #PureHeartPower #RadiantResilience #ResilientHeart

Vibration

Why do you have to vibrate high?

Sickness has a vibration of 5.5 hz, it does not seriously exist above 25.5 hz.

The reasons for having low vibration can be: tiredness, fear, nervous tension, rage. This is why we have to vibrate high – stop constantly watching the news, even if it’s for a short period of time, so your vibrating frequency doesn’t drop. The frequency of the Earth is 27.4 hz but there are places that vibrate very low like hospitals and shopping centers, bars, nightclubs, jails, subways, old office buildings, etc.

Pain 0.1 to 2 hz

Fear 0.2 to 2.2 hz

Irritation 0.9 to 6.8 hz

Noise 0.6 to 2.2 hz

Pride 0.8 to hz

Abandon 1.5 hz

Superiority 1.9 hz

Instead: Truly thankful 150 hz

Compassion 150 hz and more Loving our neighbor and universal Love from 205 hz

You need to vibrate high, in the most scientific meaning of the word it is more important than ever…!!!

Brain waves can have frequencies ranging from 0.1 to over 100 Hertz (Hz). Different types of brain waves are associated with different frequencies and states of mind:

“Tuning” your brain to work at a certain frequency and vibration is key.

Luckily…Our brain already works in certain frequencies…Which are created by our brain waves.

And one sort of brainwave directly relates to genius-like creativity and universe-unlocking manifestation powers.

If you can tune into THAT brainwave…

The secrets of the universe will be yours.

And you’ll get everything you want.

To tune into it?

Listen “brain-setting” soundwave for 7 min : Become “one” with the Universe & fulfill all your dreams and desires.

If the page is still up, you can discover the truth HERE.⬇️

https://tinyurl.com/Genius-Brain-waves

Living – Smiling – Playing – Painting – Singing – Dancing – Enjoying Life – Meditating – Yoga – Taí chi chuan – Sun – Enjoying Nature – Feeding on food that the Earth gives us: seeds-grains-cereals-pulses-fruits and drink water – will help us vibrate higher!

Soul

The men look at her and tell themselves they want her..

Imagining taming her fiery heart and wild spirit inspires them to chase her affection relentlessly…

Until they realize that behind her soulful eyes lies unexpected depth and beautiful passion.

Truth is, they all fancied themselves up to the task of winning her heart, thinking this beautiful woman was much like any other..

Until they realized that she was nothing like the rest.

They tried wooing her with expensive gifts and flashy places…only to understand that she didn’t care for the material possessions of this world-

She would trade a thousand diamonds for the chance to meet and connect with a deep soul and have meaningful conversation.

She wasn’t interested in what they could buy her, where they could take her or what gifts they could give her…

She wanted to know who they were, what moved them and their reasons for being.

Truthfully, this surprised and shocked many, for they weren’t prepared to open themselves up, be present and share their vulnerability.

Many couldn’t process what that meant and it scared them.

But that’s who she was, what she valued and how she loved…

She never settled, compromised or devalued herself for anyone else.

Either accept her on her own terms or part as friends…

She wouldn’t change who she was for anything-

Especially love.

She knew true love would be the one that she could embrace herself fully- and so would be.

So, she wasn’t holding out for a hero, superhero or anything else unrealistic.

She was content to live her life and enjoy it…but she’d love him when he would finally cross her path.

And if that wasn’t her future, well, then she would make her own love story quite happily.

So, until then, this fiery woman would keep doing what she did best:

Love hard, live passionately and enjoy her life.

Every day in every way,

She’ll always be strong, proud and free.

And one more thing:

They’d never call her lonely..

They’d realize she was loving and living her life, just the way she chose.

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Narcissist hate our happiness

I know this all too well

They can’t bear us being happy. Often when we’ve broken free and started our lives over, much happily without them, they get really inventive with their slander and lies. This dad had arranged to take the children out for lunch, a rare treat, with their grandmother too. He waited to pick them up outside their house, his girlfriend and mother in the car too. They waited and waited. Finally, the alienating mother came storming out, screaming. She leaned in through the car window and asked the girlfriend if she had children of her own because they’d better not go anywhere near her ex. He wasn’t safe, clearly implying he was a paedophile. Fortunately, the girlfriend knew enough that these were the words of a deranged and jealous ex. But when their mother had driven off shouting down the neighbourhood, the children reluctantly got into the car, and reprimanded their dad for inflicting a girlfriend on them (apparently it had all been agreed beforehand). Lunch didn’t happen. The girlfriend wouldn’t sit through lunch pretending everything was okay. The dad took the children home, and they posted on social media how their mother was ‘a beast’ the new girlfriend had run off crying (not true), and their mother would easily beat the girlfriend in a fight. This story exemplifies how the children come out ‘guns blazing’ for an alienating parent, depicting them in a strong, victorious light, even imagining them like in this story, winning an actual, physical fight. Fortunately, this is a happy ending for the alienated dad. He and his girlfriend are happily married and enjoying holidays and great relationships with both his children and hers. The children are perfectly happy and safe. The alienator is still angry.

#charliemccready

#parentalalienationcoach

#alienatedparent

#parentalalienationawareness

#parentalalienation

#childpsychologicalabuse

#FamilyCourt

#custody

#mothersmatter

#FathersMatter

#custodybattle

Hopi Prophecy of Whirling Power Rainbow

HOPI PROPHECY OF THE WHIRLING POWER RAINBOW

“There will come a day when people of all races, colors, and creeds will put aside their differences. They will come together in love, joining hands in unification, to heal the Earth and all Her children. They will move over the Earth like a great Whirling Rainbow, bringing peace, understanding and healing everywhere they go. Many creatures thought to be extinct or mythical will resurface at this time; the great trees that perished will return almost overnight. All living things will flourish, drawing sustenance from the breast of our Mother, the Earth.

The great spiritual Teachers who walked the Earth and taught the basics of the truths of the Whirling Rainbow Prophecy will return and walk amongst us once more, sharing their power and understanding with all. We will learn how to see and hear in a sacred manner. Men and women will be equals in the way Creator intended them to be; all children will be safe anywhere they want to go. Elders will be respected and valued for their contributions to life. Their wisdom will be sought out. The whole Human race will be called The People and there will be no more war, sickness or hunger forever.”

So it SHALL BE!

Solstice Energies 12/12-12/21

SOLSTICE ENERGIES APPROACHING ✨12:12 ~ 12:21 : TEN DAYS OF DEEP TRANSFORMATION TOWARDS 2025 ✨ DECEMBER 18, 2024

Dear friends, we are just a few days away from the Winter/Summer Capricorn Solstice, and the energies are ramping up. The recent solar activity that resulted in yesterday’s G1 geomagnetic storm, in synergy with the full moon energies, has stirred our energy fields and made them more permeable to the incoming Sosltice frequencies. The Solstice light codes are already being absorbed by our body fields and mostly by our nervous system. Energetically speaking, our brain hemispheres are undergoing a few recalibrations so that their interconnectivity is increasing and assisting the creation of new pathways. Some mild headaches, brain fog, and sleepiness might occur during this period. Stay well hydrated.

The main goal of these Solstice light codes is the creation of a new inner balance. However, as we move through this process of internal realignment we are also purging blockages and outdated energetic anchors that are preventing us from achieving a higher vibrational state.

This December Trinity alignment of our soul, mind, and body fields is a constant process and requires a lot of energy. Day after day, we are being transmuted by the cosmic energies, and this process needs patience and understanding. As the new lightcodes enter and interact with your nervous system, they then spread down the spine and into the rest of your body systems and organs. Whenever this new high frequency information encounters stagnant energy areas within the body, an energetic friction is created. This may cause physical symptoms of all sorts, depending on where in the body the blockage is located. That said, these symptoms could also connect with the stagnant emotions stored in such organ/system. Therefore, it is important to listen to your body and intuition during these 10 days so these emotional issues can be addressed. Stay focused on your heart center and feel the sacred Light pulsating within you.

As we approach the Solstice climax on Saturday, you may notice a few emotional/physical issues coming up to the surface that will need to be addressed. This is an important part of the transmutation process in order to achieve a new lighter inner and peaceful state of being. On the other hand, if you have already released all that was needed to clear during this phase of your earthly journey, then the Solstice energy will find you in a more peaceful and stable place. The dynamics of this process are unique to each of us.

The Trinity codes embedded within the Solstice and around Christmas time/Christ consciousness reawakening, will be working intensively and deep within us as we encounter the new 2025 frequencies. Feel free to keep listening to the “December Trinity Codes” activation in the perennial section of the 3D to 5D Activations Library to strengthen this three fold energetic connection within your whole being. You can also explore the many other activations within the library including the new “2025 Timeline Activation”:

PERENNIAL ACTIVATIONS

Our energy fields are getting ready for the shift that will take place as we move into the new year. The 2025 frequencies are slowly but steadily starting to enter into our consciousness and energy spheres. New timelines are being woven, and this week and the next will be pivotal for consolidating our future steps. Of course, the future is not written in stone, but it is our present conscious choices that will delineate the future timelines. Go within, meditate, and try to flow, without resisting the changes the universe is triggering in your life.

Remember, the Universe is on your side and wants you to shine your Light brightly. Much love, and have a wonderful day. Stay tuned for more updates as we continue navigating the last days of this special year 💖

WE ARE ONE ♡

Diego E. Berman 2024-2025Ⓒ

http://www.diegoberman.com

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Strive for the real thing ❤️

When engaging in love, commit to it fully. Express your emotions openly to that person. Maintain eye contact and demonstrate passion through fearless kisses. Refrain from worrying about the present or the future growth of your relationship. Embrace life’s imperfections and fragility. Simply love. When engaging in love, do so with the mindset that tomorrow may never come. Cherish every moment as if it’s your last. View the person in front of you as the most extraordinary individual you’ve ever encountered. When engaging in love, do so as if no one else exists. Be insatiable in your desire for their touch, smile, and laughter. Love as if you’ve never considered a life without them. When engaging in love, do so with the innocence of never having experienced heartbreak or deception. Love without fear of pain or vulnerability. When engaging in love, do so with unbridled passion. Love with the conviction that it’s your sole purpose in life. Offer your whole heart to the person you care for. Be vulnerable, and don’t be afraid to get messy. When engaging in love, do so with intention and purpose. Love with every fiber of your being, and persevere through life’s challenges. Choose to love through your actions, words, and decisions. Commit to loving your person unconditionally. When engaging in love, do so with deliberate intention. Refrain from half-loving or making partial commitments. Don’t waste time giving only fragments of yourself, and instead, strive for the real thing.

#resa