Tag: relationships

Living with the one you love ❤️

Lifelong commitment is not what everyone thinks it is. It’s not waking up early every morning to make breakfast and eat together. It’s not cuddling in bed together until both of you peacefully fall asleep. It’s not a clean home and a homemade meal every day.

It’s someone who steals all the covers or snores like a chainsaw It’s sometimes slammed doors, and a few harsh words, disagreeing, and the silent treatment until your hearts heal. Then…forgiveness!

It’s coming home to the same person every day that you know loves and cares about you, in spite of and because of who you are. It’s laughing about the one time you accidentally did something stupid. It’s about dirty laundry and unmade beds without finger pointing. It’s about helping each other with the hard work of life! It’s about swallowing the nagging words instead of saying them out loud.

It’s about eating the cheapest and easiest meal you can make and sitting down together at 10 p.m. to eat because you both had a crazy day. It’s when you have an emotional breakdown, and your love lays with you and holds you and tells you everything is going to be okay, and you believe them. It’s when “Netflix and Chill” literally means you watch Netflix and hang out. It’s about still loving someone even though sometimes they make you absolutely insane, angry, and hurt your feelings. Who loves you for fat or thin, happy or grumpy, young or old.

Living with the person you love is not perfect, and sometimes it’s hard, but it’s amazing, comforting, and one of the best things you’ll ever experience. credit goes to the respective author

3 loves ❤️🙏💯

We fall in love with 3 people over the course of our lifetime. Each one has a specific reason. Let me explain…

Our First Love usually happens at a young age and we eventually grow distant or call it quits over the dumbest things.

When you get older and more mature you look back and think it was not love. But it actually was…. It was love for what you knew love to be at that point in time.

You have to always remember there are different depths of love.

Now our 2nd Love and this is the hard one….

You get hurt when you fall in love with this person. This one teaches us lessons that we learn from and makes us stronger as a individual.

This love includes a substantial amount of pain, betrayal, abuse, lies, and emotional damage.

But believe it or not, this is the one where we grow the most. We realize what we truly know about love and what we don’t know about love.

So now we put our walls up because we are extremely protective of what the future might hold for us when it comes to relationships.

And naturally we become closed off, suspicious, very careful and slightly scared. But now we know exactly what we want out of a partner and what we definitely do not want.

Our 3rd and final love.

This one comes out of nowhere. No warning. No sign whatsoever. You don’t go looking for this love. It actually finds you. You can put up all the walls in the world, and they will come crashing down just as fast as you built them up in the first place.

You’ll find yourself caring about that person without even trying.

They look nothing like your usual type, but you get lost when you look in their eyes. You don’t see any flaws. You see flawless imperfections. You find yourself telling them everything about you and what has molded you into the person you are today.

You want a life with them. You want slow dances in the kitchen, you want walks on the beach under a starry night sky, you want to marry them and have beautiful children that resemble the both of you perfectly.

And every night when you close your eyes before you go to sleep, you catch yourself praying to God and thanking him for the reasons why it has never worked out with anyone else before.

– Cody Bret

Prioritize- Advice for Men

Most men in this generation doesn’t understand its not about giving her the world, but it’s actually about making her feel like she’s a priority in yours.

It’s about surprising her with a sweet text throughout the day to remind her you’re thinking about her.

It’s about coming home from work and asking about her day because you genuinely care about the answer.

It’s about going to the refrigerator to get yourself a drink, and you get her one without even asking.

It’s about driving down a backroad and you pull off to the side to pick her some beautiful wild flowers.

It’s about cuddling on the couch in sweatpants and binge watching your favorite show on Netflix together.

It’s about taking her to her favorite restaurant unannounced.

It’s about slow dancing with her in the rain to a song that was written by George Strait.

It’s about calling her randomly and asking how she is doing because you care about her mental health.

It’s about laying her favorite dress on the bed with a note that says “put this on and be ready by 7pm”.

It’s about knowing the smallest details about her, like the way she likes her coffee in the morning, or her favorite smell, or what movies make her cry.

It’s about going to a local ice cream parlor on a Saturday afternoon to talk about your life goals together over a couple hot fudge sundaes.

Take my advice and remember…… it doesn’t always have to cost much money, it just needs to catch her off guard.

– Cody Bret