While we live in this “fairytale” world where love is everything and sex means nothing, in reality, good sex is what holds a relationship together.

Good sex, condemned to a superfluous sim, has been thrown to the wayside as a dirty piece of rubbish. At the same time, divorce levels rise and we wonder way.

When I’m talking about good sex, I’m not talking about a fake porno pounding. I mean crying your eyes out, screaming in joy, becoming one with the universe and falling from the sky as you and your beloved become one in an explosion of energy that lights up the skies.

I’m talking raw sex where emotions are honoured, where every expression is held sacred, sex that’s so good that there’s no need for movement as two become one and then melt together.

The kind of sex that’s so good that it’s as if two universes collided.

The more I understand about the human body, the more I do believe there’s a divine hand in it all. The more I puzzle about religions which teach the flesh is sin and sex is even worse.

How could a divine being create us in imperfection? How can that be the case when WE ARE PERFECT.

Sex of course can be done as an act of frustration, a banging of flesh on flesh as two humans pound out their tension. That’s the way we know, yet their is another way.

We may know chemistry, but the secret we have is alchemy. Alchemy, the process of slow sex where two beings melt together in harmony, balancing each other in a magical act of union.

Sex so centred in love there doesn’t need to be roughness, just the beating of two hearts as breath spirals together.

This is the divinely created force that keeps two people together in love and harmony. The force that gives us such deep satisfaction that we want for nothing…

Ever.

~The Art of the Bed Chamber

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Don’t settle

Never beg someone to remain in your life.

Never chase someone who doesn’t want to be chased.

If someone doesn’t see your value or your worth, let them go…

If they won’t give you the basics or the way they make you feel gets ignored, walk away.

Because you’re worth so much more than what they’re giving you.

You deserve the right kind of love, not one that you feel like you’re settling for.

Someone who makes you feel special, and that you mean something to them.

Not someone who leaves you hanging, and wondering when you’ll hear from them next, or when you’ll get to spend time together with them again…

Wait for someone who knows your worth.

Wait for someone who can’t wait to spend time with you so much that they make time for you.

Wait for someone who enjoys staying up all night just talking with you.

Someone who when they say wants to be a team with you, genuinely means it.

Someone who will cherish and look after your heart.

Because you are worthy of someone like this.

You are worthy of someone making you feel amazing.

Because you are worth it!

Wait for this person, and don’t settle for less than you deserve…

~ Mark

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Plenty Love

“Dear Human:

You’ve got it all wrong.

You didn’t come here to master unconditional love. This is where you came from and where you’ll return.

You came here to learn personal love.

Universal love.

Messy love.

Sweaty Love.

Crazy love.

Broken love.

Whole love.

Infused with divinity.

Lived through the grace of stumbling.

Demonstrated through the beauty of… messing up.

Often.

You didn’t come here to be perfect, you already are.

You came here to be gorgeously human. Flawed and fabulous.

And rising again into remembering.

But unconditional love? Stop telling that story.

Love in truth doesn’t need any adjectives.

It doesn’t require modifiers.

It doesn’t require the condition of perfection.

It only asks you to show up.

And do your best.

That you stay present and feel fully.

That you shine and fly and laugh and cry and hurt and heal and fall and get back up and play and work and live and die as YOU.

Its enough.

It’s Plenty.”

– Courtney A. Walsh

Love is not enough

Love is not enough for a successful marriage. Love can be deceiving and may not be a reliable qualification for marriage. Love may bring happiness, but it does not necessarily provide the tools and skills needed to make a marriage work.

A successful marriage requires knowledge and understanding about how to live and commit to your partner. Understanding how to navigate the challenges of a committed relationship is a crucial element for a lasting and fulfilling partnership.

Love can make us believe that we can overcome any obstacles in a relationship. However, the reality is that many divorced individuals were once deeply in love with their partners. This challenges the notion that love is what keeps a marriage together. Love alone does not guarantee success in marriage. While love brings happiness, it lacks the necessary ingredients to sustain a marriage. Knowledge is what truly makes a marriage work.

Many people enter into marriage solely based on their feelings of love, without considering the practical aspects and challenges of living with someone. Our culture places a strong emphasis on emotions, leading us to make impulsive commitments without considering the practical aspects of a long-term commitment.

To protect and sustain a marriage, individuals need to acquire knowledge about how to navigate the complexities of a long-term commitment. This knowledge may include understanding effective communication, conflict resolution, compromise, and the ability to adapt to change. By possessing this knowledge, individuals can better equip themselves to build and maintain a successful marriage.

In conclusion, love is not the sole determinant of a successful marriage. Instead, knowledge about how to navigate the complexities of a committed relationship is crucial for a lasting and fulfilling partnership.

~Zugwai

(Inspiration from Dr Myles Munroe)

Not needing a man , needing a warrior Wild Woman ( woman in her natural state )

You Don’t Need A Man, You Need a Goddamn Warrior. 👑❤️👸

To my sweet wild woman, I know why it hasn’t worked out with anyone else—you don’t need a man, but a goddamn warrior.

You are the strength of Turkish coffee at sunrise darlin’ and don’t try to pretend that you’re not.

You are one of the wild ones, and no matter how you tried to hide that fact, you can’t be anything other than what you are—and that’s okay. You are just as you are supposed to be, magnificently wild in all of your chaotic beauty.

I know you’ve had your heart broken and I know that you don’t understand why it always seems to never work out, but I’ve finally figured it out:

You don’t need a man, you need a goddamn warrior.

It doesn’t matter if this warrior drives a Jeep or a shiny sports car, and it won’t matter if he wears silk or cotton—it will not even matter if he works in a high-rise, or on the night shift.

What is going to matter is that when it comes to taking bets on your heart, he is going to be high stakes—all the way.

This warrior of yours will crave your strength, and your intensity. He’s going to look at you and not see something to tame, but something to just fuckin’ admire.

This warrior of yours won’t be someone that you can manipulate or play with as you have in the past, so honey, don’t even try—and trust me, you’re going to love him even more because of it.

Because you aren’t just a woman, you’re a goddamn goddess.

Your fierceness is going to bring him to his knees every single time he looks into your gorgeous eyes, but the difference is, unlike the others, he isn’t going to be scared off. No, this time, you will have finally met your match—because a simple man for you just won’t do.

You need someone to match the fire in your eyes with his own. Not only that, my little wild thing, but this warrior of yours is going to want to encourage the flames instead of trying to douse them with his own insecurities.

Because for you, a warrior is the only man who will ever live in the wild with you.

He may not have to slay any dragons to earn your love, but he would still walk through fire if it meant seeing that amazing smile that you hold in reserve for only him.

This is the thing, free spirit, this warrior you seek….he’s seeking you too.

For he’s had failed relationships that have left him wondering if maybe he was meant to be alone for the rest of his journey—and you’re going to change all of that for him. You both have been travelling along on your separate journeys and have been doing an okay job at it, but that’s about to change too.

Because baby, when you and this warrior of yours meet and collide—it’s going to be a love set on fire.

Don’t try to run this time—I know your heart has been broken before, and that you’re not used to things working out, but this time it’s different.

Give yourself time to see that.

This warrior of yours needs to see that it’s possible for someone to see all of his wild, and still be there when he craves his freedom and ventures off into this world for a bit. You won’t always need to follow him, just as he won’t always follow you. Let yourself stay wild, even when all you want to do is curl up in that spot along his side and forget the rest of the world exists.

Let yourself still wander naked under the full moon, and drink moonshine with the stars. Let yourself feel the pull of the wind on your heart, and the sun toward a new journey. Because this warrior is going to love you because of your wild—and he’ll want you to keep it.

You’ll be in this together now, this amazing, crazy, chaotic, wonderfully heartbreaking life—because it takes a warrior to love a goddess. And it takes a goddess to show a warrior what real love is.

So pack up your insecurities and your ideas about picket fences, because that was never you anyway.

You were born knowing that you were destined for more, and now is the time for you to see what all those dreams look like.

There is no stopping a love like this, so promise me you’ll hold out just a little bit longer.

Have a little bit of hope, and always give love just one more try, because I promise you my sweet wild woman—the love that you seek is seeking you as well.

Source Consciousness!!

Vulnerability

The path to intimacy begins in the heart, and that requires surrender to vulnerability.

“An evolved woman wants a man who understands that intimacy is more than just sex.”

In order to truly love a man, a woman must feel and know his heart.

This can be an issue because boys are often raised to see vulnerability as a weakness (nothing could be further from the truth).

As a result, they grow up to become men who guard their hearts, closing them off from experiencing full and deep intimacy.

Vulnerability requires a great deal of courage (a masculine attribute), which comes from the Latin word ‘cor,’ meaning heart. Contrary to popular belief, the courage to live (and act) from the heart is a sign of bravery and masculinity.

And there is nothing an evolved woman loves more than a masculine man.

~Adina

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They don’t care , not interested

You were emotional, and they didn’t care.

You begged them for their time, and they didn’t care.

You told them how much you missed them, and they didn’t care.

You told them you were hurting, and they didn’t care.

You tried to convince them to see the truth, and they didn’t care.

They saw you a mess with tears streaming down your face, and they didn’t care.

But this was someone you said you loved…

This was someone who you would have done anything for…

But they wouldn’t do the same for you.

They showed you what you meant to them through their actions.

They showed you that their words didn’t hold integrity.

They showed you that they just weren’t capable of being decent.

You are worth more than someone who wants to treat you like their Plan B.

You are worth more than someone who doesn’t care about the way they make you feel.

Your heart and your love is precious…

So don’t waste your heart on someone who isn’t prepared to love you in the same way that you’re prepared to love them…

~ Mark

Remember Me

“When you remember me,

it means that you have carried

something of who I am with you,

that I have left some mark

of who I am on who you are.

It means that you can summon me

back to your mind even though

countless years and miles may stand

between us.

It means that if we meet again,

you will know me.

It means that even after I die,

you can still see my face

and hear my voice

and speak to me in your heart.

For as long as you remember me,

I am never entirely lost.”

🌙 Frederick Buechner

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Don’t let her down

Fall for a woman who makes you uncomfortable.
One who feels completely at home,
in her own skin
and in her own company.
One who’s familiar with her faults
and is always a flight risk.
It’s much harder to hit moving targets,
especially the ones learning on the run—
always learning,
always running.
Fall for a woman who has a list of books
she’s promised herself to read.
And one who knows where to leave
her teeth marks on you.
One who has a fire in her belly
and a passion to fuel it.

Fall for a woman so beautiful inside
that you can’t help but stare at who she is.
Fall for a woman who’s multidimensional.
Who has levels, and layers,
and dark corners,
and curves you must explore.
Fall for her intricacies
and her strange ways.
Do not fall only for her looks;
fall for what the rest of the world continues
to overlook.

Fall for someone better than you
someone who will work with you
in lockstep.
When you find her,
fall all the way.
And let her know it’s safe to do the same.
Then,
no matter what,
don’t let her down.

J. Raymond
“Don’t Let Her Down” From Spades.
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