Tag: Narcissist
Decode and heal your mind – Sam
kim Saeed – Stop Trying to make it work w/ Narcissist
Stop trying to find ways to make it work with the narcissist )or other manipulator).
Narcissists do not want a committed relationship with one person. The very thought of a devoted relationship with one person bores them to tears and repels them to their core.
This is why you can’t seem to make any progress, no matter what you do to appeal to or appease them.
You’re basically throwing your life out the window for someone who will never change or see what they’re giving up.
The sooner you accept this, the sooner you can start making better choices for your life and your future.
https://youtu.be/fUDeYa9bBZI?si=z9ajMB8niCP4Ifef
Narcissist’ Aura
Enablers
Narcissist sense of humor
Mothering
I married an adult.. getting pregnant was not planned but a very beautiful gift for myself.. I was treated like the enemy , and blamed . I noted the detached fathering , the non interest before and after .. I didn’t plan to mother ex , but to nurture ..I consider his favorite quote , ” growing up is optional, growing old is mandatory ” .. Looking back afforded me the opportunity to note his none growth and non maturation ..
I believe in each family member having a place at the table , and to be heard and valued , but in the marriage I found myself in, I lean towards the kids should have been a priority by ex and myself .. his growth is up to him, and he just never got that .
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