Responsible

The problem with always feeling responsible for being the bigger person and “mature” in every situation and emotionally bypassing is that you never assign blame to the true perpetrator and end up punishing yourself due to misplaced self-blame. Feel all your feelings – including healthy righteous anger toward those who violated you – and let it motivate you to know you’re not the one who deserves suffering, self-punishment or responsibility for the harmful actions of others. ❤️ http://www.selfcarehaven.org 💖
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11 Key Things High-Value Men Do Differently From Narcissists | Thought Catalog

Dating a high-value and high-quality man is drastically different from dating a narcissist (and narcissists can be male or female).
— Read on thoughtcatalog.com/shahida-arabi/2023/05/11-key-things-high-value-men-do-differently-from-narcissists/

Behind every man

INTERESTING FACT FROM HISTORY

In ancient Egyptian times,
women were seen and honored
as higher and holier than a man.

The woman is the mother of all,
giving life and teaching.

The ancients believed
that when a man
achieves a great deal of knowledge,
spirituality and power,
he would be allowed to wear a long hair wig
to symbolize that he had reached a certain level equal to a woman.

As the two come together
she holds her man,
giving him strength and protection.

There is a saying that continues to float today:
“Behind every successful man
there is a strong woman.” ❤️❤️

CTTO

I’ve mourned those not waking for decades , I’m surrendered to their journey,being their choice

“Everything occurring upon this planet and within humanity at this time is a reckoning. A great cosmic opportunity, a cleansing. It is always at work. Muster the strength and courage to turn within. Know in one flash of understanding that you are spirit experiencing yourself in a human body. All you have experienced and are experiencing is to provide the lessons needed to gain wisdom and understanding. That is the way of Universal law.”

From Zandus via therainbowscribe.com

Mirrors

When the seeker becomes fully aware that every person about him is a mirror for himself, there is in that realization a feeling of “too much information.”

Shall the seeker take, in complete sincerity, every word that is spoken to him and every interaction with another person as being information about himself? If so, the information stacks up exponentially as the years go by. Yet, it is true that the spiritual seeker is in a hall of mirrors. Each mirror is distorted, yet gives some information.

How does one look at one’s self? The eyes look outward. They do not see inward. It is impossible to see yourself as others see you. Consequently, it is very helpful to enter into the game, shall we say, of taking each person as a mirror for yourself, and musing upon what that mirror is telling you.

Q’uo

A seat at the table – Women too often dismissed

It’s easy to dismiss a woman who has traveled through the darkness over and over throughout a long life.

Mastering death and rebirth in order to survive, within a society that deems it terrifying.

What to do with women who have “remembered” who we are, quietly in the shadows?

As the maiden and mother step back to honor her in the autumn of her life.

We take our seat at a table with honor, embracing the wisdom garnered only through the Divine journey laid before us.

We plant the seeds and nourish the growth of the next generation, just as nature would do.

We wear our scars, wrinkles, saggy skin, gray and white hair with grace, dignity, and a knowing that we carry something within our beings that only we carry, and this world needs.

Wise women, you have earned your seat at the table.

Please take it.

-Mary Lane, excerpt from our anthology, The Crone Initiation

@Archaeology for the Woman’s Soul

Photo: Changing Woman by Drea Magic on Devian

Spiritual Journey – New Earth

To The Ascension LightWorker Collective

The body is experiencing cellular upgrades These are not gentle callings to change your thinking. We are past that. We are in the phases of the body ascending into higher form. These changes are deep and needing a lot of light energy to recalibrate and anchor to the New Earth.

As we transition into the New Earth, it is important to trust your inner wisdom, even in the face of societal and familial pressures. The world as we know it is undergoing a collapse of outdated institutions, clearing the path for a higher-frequency New Earth.

If necessary, show love to others from a distance and keep honouring your strong desire for freedom. This is a time for radical authenticity and unwavering courage. Above all it’s about being true to yourself.

The spiritual journey is unique to each individual, deeply personal, and cannot be organised or regulated. It is not necessary for everyone to follow the same path. It is important to listen to and follow your own truth.

During this period of significant transformation, it is also important to provide yourself with extra rest, nourishment, and care, as your mental emotional, and spiritual well-being are undergoing profound changes.

When one ascending individual opens up it has a ripple effect on all of us. We are interconnected and part of a collective whole. While we have our individual personalities, we are ultimately connected in the grander scheme of things.

We can remind ourselves that we are united as one and that our true essence is that of spiritual beings.

Your soul is longing to be heard. Shut out the distraction of the physical or outer world and listen to your intuition. You are a clear channel for receiving the messages from your higher self. This is not a time to listen to the advice of main stream others because ultimately it’s about making peace with the fact that you will be misunderstood when you vibrate on a different frequency.

Embrace this process,

as it signifies a shift towards a more aligned ,higher and authentic version of yourself.

Prioritise activities and experiences that uplift your spirit and raise your vibrational frequency.

As an observer, allow your thoughts to pass by without letting them deplete your energy or hijack your focus.

Take time to connect with your higher self through meditation , nature and moments of silence, for it is within yourself that you will find the answers you seek.

If you have been feeling left out in the cold when it comes to ascension and the fulfillment of your dreams, that is about to change.

You will soon be showered with ascension blessings.

In loving and devoted ascension collective service .

Channeled / Written by

Ascension LightWorkers . copyright ©️

How to prepare for a new job as a highly sensitive person

Learn practical tips and strategies for starting a new job as a highly sensitive person (HSP) and dealing with anxiety in a new environment. Manage stress, build confidence, and thrive in your new role. Discover expert tips here!
— Read on www.welcometothejungle.com/en/articles/tips-for-a-highly-sensitive-person-starting-a-new-job

You’re not for everyone

YOU’RE NOT FOR EVERYONE

You’re not for everyone

but you are most definitely

for someone

and when you find yourself caught

in the trap of ‘people-pleasing’

remind yourself quickly

that you are ‘people’ too

and further refresh your memory

by recalling

that pleasing everyone

is not possible

it cannot be done

just like the sun cannot shine

on all faces at once

but when it does

when you are for someone

it is more than enough

you’re not for everyone

but it’s the ‘someones’

who matter most

the ‘someones’

who will breathe you new life

when your lungs forget how

love your ‘someones’

they’re the only ones

you need

Donna Ashworth

Delighted to say that the book this poem belongs to is now open for order ♥️

WILD HOPE: healing words to find light on dark days ♥️

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