It hurts my heart n soul to witness this
“Brono-buster Parenting: Breaking Horses and Breaking Babies
Bronco busters were in a hurry. You could “break” a horse in a matter of hours if not minutes, rather than days. I suspect baby-busters are also in a hurry. They want to get back to their lives, to the interests established before baby arrived to interrupt them. Or they want to move baby along in development, as if this were possible (not!—it’s like trying to hurry up the growth of the oak tree you just planted). But it is possible to slow down baby development from lack of enough affectionate touch (part of our evolved nest).
When started during babyhood, we can call bronco-busting parenting “baby-busting” parenting.”
Bronco-Buster Parenting: Baby Unwise – Kindred Media
— Read on kindredmedia.org/2019/01/bronco-buster-parenting-baby-unwise/