I have taken the liberty of making a list of things we are not doing anymore.
We are not overgiving as if we may die for enforcing a boundary.
We are not people-pleasing as if anyone’s validation is going to mean one damn thing on our next bad day.
We are not over-functioning as if there is no one else that can do it.
We are not practicing needy behavior. You are enough and you have been given everything that you need to be who you are.
We are not practicing passive-aggressive behaviors. If you have something to say by all means say it.
We are not giving up our power as if we are small children.
Own who you are.
Stop playing the victim.
You are a warrior,
We are not giving ultimatums. People are who they are, they deserve the same space that you do to be you, to make your own decisions that are not based on someone else’s opinions.
We are not doing this shit anymore. Instead, we practice self-love and through self-love, we heal ourselves.
They are not the tragic ending but the heroine of our own story.
A Moon Woman’s Musings