Stop Calling Women Nags — How Emotional Labor is Dragging Down Gender Equality

I never knew this, from tracing to Germany with no discussion,

I lived with the rigidly of a partner who was critical of my every

move or non move. Asking for help when it is clearly needed ,

was part and parcel of ” marriage ” to an under developed

emotionally stuck man child . I realized he wasn’t meeting

in the middle. He worked outside the home and that’s all he

had to do. Taking a road job he was away 3 days a week,

in order to dodge responsibility ..

Sadly , many adult men were ” sheltered ” in the model of

trauma bond with mom, ” matured ” socially , but from

birth has had less emotionally grounding /bonding with

Mom, and need and deserve it ..The interactions of parents

can very will imprint the male child with fear of emotions

watching Mom treated like a servant..

Gifts were seldom a surprise , request circumvented his either

ignoring the event , or a gift that had no rhythm or rhyme .

Adult men seldom transform this naturally, many

beaten into submission by a spouse who threatens

using kids as leverage .. a huge mistake , for

seldom does a man romance or honor a woman

wife who ” mothers ” him.. the nurture of each

should be the bridge ..

The unpaid job men still don’t understand.
— Read on www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a12063822/emotional-labor-gender-equality/

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

One thought on “Stop Calling Women Nags — How Emotional Labor is Dragging Down Gender Equality”

  1. Raising children at home by the mother is not an unpaid job. The father has to work in order to bring home the financial resources that allows his wife to stay home.

    Single mothers rely on a combination of child support and govt welfare.

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