Daughters with Absent Fathers

My Dad was mostly away as a truck driver . I missed him so deeply and would grab his pillow for a deep smell when he was away .

Boys also have losses as a result of absent Fathers . I have witnessed the results in our sons , my brothers and male dates or male friends .

“The Absent Father Effect on Daughters” by Susan E. Schwartz delves into the profound impact that the absence of a father can have on a daughter’s development, identity, and emotional well-being. Through a psychological lens, Schwartz explores how this absence—whether physical, emotional, or both—affects daughters and shapes their adult lives.

Here are several key lessons from the book

  1. Understanding the Impact of Absence: The book highlights the importance of recognizing the depth and breadth of the impact an absent father can have on a daughter’s psyche. This absence can manifest in various aspects of life, including issues with self-esteem, difficulties in forming healthy relationships, and challenges in understanding one’s identity.
  2. The Role of Recognition and Acknowledgment: A vital step in addressing the effects of an absent father is the acknowledgment of his absence and its impact. Recognizing these effects allows for the beginning of healing and provides a framework for understanding behaviors and emotions that may have been confusing or painful.
  3. Navigating the Path to Healing: Schwartz offers insights into the healing process, emphasizing that while the journey is personal and can be challenging, it is also filled with opportunities for growth and self-discovery. Healing may involve therapy, creating supportive relationships, and engaging in self-care practices.
  4. The Importance of External Support Systems: The book suggests that building a strong support system is crucial for daughters dealing with the absence of a father. This support can come from other family members, friends, mentors, or professional counselors who can provide understanding, validation, and guidance.
  5. Exploring One’s Identity Beyond Absence: One of the lessons is the encouragement for daughters to explore and define their identity independently of the father’s absence. This exploration can lead to a more robust sense of self and a reclamation of power over one’s life narrative.
  6. Developing Healthy Relationships: Schwartz discusses the impact of an absent father on a daughter’s relationships, particularly in choosing partners and establishing boundaries. The book offers strategies for understanding and breaking patterns that may lead to unhealthy relationship choices.
  7. The Power of Narrative: There’s a focus on the power of personal narrative and storytelling in healing. By reframing their stories, daughters can find meaning in their experiences and move towards a more empowered and self-aware future.
  8. The Role of Forgiveness: The concept of forgiveness, both of oneself and the absent father, is explored as a potential component of healing. Forgiveness is presented not as an obligation but as a choice that can lead to emotional freedom.
  9. Empowerment through Understanding: Gaining insight into the ways in which an absent father has influenced one’s life can be incredibly empowering. It allows for a reclaiming of control over one’s emotional well-being and life decisions.
  10. The Continuum of Absence: Schwartz acknowledges that absence can vary in degree and type, affecting daughters in uniquely individual ways. Understanding this spectrum is crucial in addressing and healing from its effects personally and sensitively.

“The Absent Father Effect on Daughters” is a comprehensive guide to understanding and healing from the complex dynamics of growing up without a father’s presence. It provides valuable insights and practical advice for those looking to navigate the challenges and find a path toward healing and fulfillment.

Book: https://amzn.to/43ClrMW

Planetary Change- Lots of adaptation of Solar Energy

To The Ascension LightWorker Collective

Mercury Retrograde will take place from April 1st to April 25th. During this period, challenges may arise, but there are also Amazing opportunities for ascension acceleration . For reasons not fully known to us Mercury retrograde favours the Ascending , It’s important to keep being patient, authentic and true to Self and to release anything that no longer aligns with the greatest good . Maintaining a more positive attitude will help attract many unexpected blessings and rewards.

Amidst increased solar activity and higher energy levels, remembering to pause, breathe, to ground into Gaia and self consciously vibrating into the present moment is also most helpful ., Trusting that you are on the right path and celebrating your progress along the way .

Accepting any perceived challenges with courage to face them directly and full on . Approaching everything from a place of the higher heart space of love and speaking your truth with conviction and compassion. Trusting the unfolding of unpredictable events is always for the highest good.

During Mercury Retrograde, you may experience simultaneous endings and beginnings, unveiling deeper truths and dispelling deceptions. Taking this planetary opportunity to heal, letting go of past patterns that may have been hindering your Rightful birthright , joy and success. Grasping the power within you to navigate through uncertainties.

As you transition through ascension changes, be prepared for more endings and new beginnings. With healing and energy boosts, you are highly charged and empowered to navigate this planetary transition with divine love and grace.

3D Secrets and illusions will be unveiled in the year 2024 as the ascending collective awakens to the Truth . newly emerging energies and heeding to the higher calling will align you with your soul’s purpose, reconnecting with your true version of self.

Many ascending will adopt to a much healthier lifestyle and find new ways to Reflect and express the divine within , moving away from impulsivity and false agendas , preparing for major internal shifts and completing painful karmic cycles, loops and patterns, addressing any past woundings to fully clear , release and heal .

Accepting any necessary changes with newfound understanding , higher perceptions and releasing the emotional burdens for your rightful freedom and preparing for the upcoming Aries New Moon Solar Eclipse.

Boundaries are about upholding promises to the higher self , choosing self-worth, and surrounding yourself with those aligned in ascension who value and respect you. They are not about changing others but about honouring your own needs , virtues and values. By healing what triggers boundary issues within , you raise your vibrational frequencies and establish a powerful boundary based on higher self-respect and self-love. Ultimately, your higher frequency is your strongest boundary.

The Crystalline realm holds powerful DNA encoded energy of unconditional love and oneness, that is the same as the energy of The Christ consciousness . It is present not only in The physical crystal earth core but also in the air and water, which is significant as humans are predominantly made of water much like our planet .

Being mindful of the consciousness in water you consume and bathe in is important as your body is intelligent and extremely powerful. Paying attention to synchronistic signs and taking inspired actions as guides, you are inherently connected to the Crystalline realm energy.

2024 is a powerful time for realigning the human template energy with Stargate activations , preparing ascending individuals for the upcoming upgraded energies for the collective and the planet. Mass awakenings continue to occur ,those who have already fully awakened will be called upon to guide and support others in finding alignment and balance in new earth energy . We are witnessing the unfolding of the divine plan here on ascending earth .

The 4-4 portal activation is aligning with the soul plan for ascending souls, awakening higher intuition and inner wisdom to guide you towards more truth. Accepting that the outer changes must occur on Earth, as they are necessary for exposing deceptions and revealing people’s true intentions.

The unveiling of dark agendas and the authentic self is part of the transformational energies at play on this Planet .Trusting in the divine timing of this process as truth will continue to cut through all illusions and masks continue to fall , allowing the unfolding of a much higher purpose.

To support the rising collective consciousness, it is necessary to maintain a space free of doubt and fear, trusting in our higher purpose and feeling divinely supported. With an increasing number of Ascending beings awakening, more light is available to those open to receiving it.

Remain unwavering, fully present, and devoted to the vision and experience of Planetary unity consciousness. Allowing your space to be filled with expanding light and trusting the journey towards oneness.

Ascension planetary light team want us to know that as you ascend and transition away from the outer chaos reality taking place of disclosures and heightened awareness, you may feel a sense of confusion , separation and loneliness. This period of solitude is a natural part of creating your personal paradise here on Earth during this ascension process.

This is a temporary ascension phase as you merge with your higher self and Ascension Entourage team. Trusting that light -minded individuals, your soul tribe, will be drawn to you as you attune to fifth-dimensional frequencies on our ascending Earth.

Remaining patient in self and in the ascension process, remembering that this Planetary transition is leading ascending souls to much deeper connections and a sense of consciousness unity with those who resonate with the collective ascension awakening.

In Loving and Devoted Ascension Service

Source Inspiration by Ascension Lightworkers ©️

Higher Guidance

Total Solar Eclipse in Aries on April 8th, 2024, will mark a significant cosmic event that will go beyond the individual self and connects ascending individuals to a sense of unity and the planets future potential. This eclipse represents a powerful illumination of the soul’s path, guiding many on a transformational journey towards higher consciousness and alignment with higher timelines.

As we navigate through this Total Eclipse of the Sun, only truth and pure authenticity can now guide us forward, while anything less will not withstand the energetic shifts that accompany this celestial event. It is a time to prepare for profound energetic transformations, purification of the soul, and destined changes that are part of a total energetic reset.

Stepping into the activation of a new cycle, emerging from the Total Eclipse of the Soul, we are called to embrace the total transformation that lays ahead in ascending life . This planetary event invites us all to let go of old patterns, beliefs, and doubts, in order to fully integrate the energies of change and growth that this eclipse brings.

Ascending individuals are preparing for this cosmic alignment as a higher opportunity for spiritual evolution, introspection, and renewal. Opening self to the energies of change and transformation, trusting that this Total Solar Eclipse in Aries will guide ascending souls towards their true purpose and highest potential

This topic needs to be addressed and clarified : Loneliness is not experienced in 5D beyond structures , once you reach this higher dimensional stage you have merged with higher self and source light energy , there can be a misunderstanding in this as you ascend , there is no counting system beyond 5D as it is literally impossible to count into infinite realms of existence there is no 6D , 7D , 8D etc etc , this is coming from the linear mind set only , anything past 5D is recognised as 5D beyond , once in these higher conscious realms there is no separation as this in itself is an illusion .

5D beyond realms is a unity conscious space and it is impossible to feel alone in this higher state of conscious awareness . Ascension moving into 5D beyond realms can make one feel alone physically until the full higher self merger has taken place , lonileness and seperation feelings are in the physical 3D -4D only realms of conscious existence .

On this planet of duality, both darkness and light coexist, with the shadows being revealed alongside the illumination. As we navigate this journey on ascending Earth Gaia, we hold the power to choose the reality we wish to manifest for ourselves amidst these dualistic forces.

The intensified energy is shedding light on our shadow aspects for deep integration. The Collective Shadow is emerging rapidly from the subconscious, cellular level, alike to a volcano erupting globally. This collective process mirrors personal shadow work in its discomfort and potential for growth.

Healing and integrating our shadows collectively requires a conscious , diligent and concerted effort. By embodying our authentic selves and living from the higher heart space we contribute to the healing of the global collective shadow. This Accelerated Shadow Timeline presents opportunities for embracing 5D consciousness timelines that reshape the planet’s energetic and magnetic fields.

In this planetary phase of vibrational conscious shifts and upgrades, the collective energy remains intense as many are swiftly transitioning between timelines. The soul’s calling grows much stronger, leading to alignment with the Higher Self and embodying divine expressions in physical form. Expect further releases, intense shifts, and overwhelming physical changes and energies.

Amidst these major changes, prioritising quiet reflection and higher connection to what resonates within. Allowing the time needed for clarity to emerge before fully stepping into vibrational alignment with your higher purpose.

As new pathways open for success, obstacles blocking your progress will come to light. The extreme thinning of the veil reveals who or what impedes your blessings and manifestations, prompting a rapid process of rebirth in ascending earth . This swift transformation will bring in higher opportunities, freedom, and creative energy.

Following the solar eclipse on April 8th, you will experience greater balance and alignment in ascending life. You will have integrated the Divine masculine and feminine energies, harmonising the heart and mind, and will be operating from a place of giving and receiving with your higher heart at the centre. mastering your emotions and trusting your intuition, this harmony will extend this to your connections and relationships with others.

Higher Guidance encourages channeling this energy towards self-improvement rather than giving it away to others as before. It is another opportunity to prioritise self-accelerated ascension to vibrationally align with long-term aspirations, dreams and goals. Remaining focused on harnessing this energy for your higher benefit, believing that you absolutely deserve the best and seizing the opportunities now available to make it happen.

Your intuitive gifts are exceptionally strong now, with powerful psychic energy at your disposal. This heightened sensitivity will lead to opportunities to guide others using your extraordinary gifts and talents. Embracing and trusting in your higher abilities, to consider how you can best use them to serve others based on your highest intentions and ascension example.

You are now radiating with a strong, heart-centered energy, free from past attachments and limitations that once hindered your ascension progress. Embracing this accelerated transformation as you stand in your expanding light to move much closer to realising your true purpose here .

In loving and devoted Ascension service

Source Inspiration: by Ascension LightWorkers. ©️

Life Purpose

Perhaps our “life’s purpose” has nothing to do with what job we will find, what new thing we will manifest or attract for ourselves, or what mythical awakening journey we will complete. Perhaps the purpose of our life is to fully live, finally, to touch each here and now moment with our presence and with the gift of our one, wild heart.

And to do whatever we can to help others, to hold them when they are hurting, to listen carefully to their stories and the ways they are attempting to make sense of a world that has gone a bit mad. To speak kind words and not forget the erupting miracle of the other as it appears in front of us. Perhaps this is the most radical gift that we can all give.

~Matt Licata

Art by Ed Binkley

Mercury Retrograde

Our bodies are changing and

we are going through extreme releasing so that more light can enter our cells, and other previous dormant, or what scientists believe as junk DNA can activate. As our old karmic imprints are being burnt away by the sacred fires of alchemy, higher light is able to enter because of these purifying fires. It’s been quite a whirlwind as these new energies are infiltrating. We are all feeling the many subtle changes going on around us and within our bodies and this will continue to happen so that our energy has time to adjust to the new frequencies being transmitted down, helping us to not only clear the old blockages, but to integrate the very new rays that have new signature patterns. Many are feeling the battle wounds of this and are feeling incredibly tired and spent. As the frequency rises it may be hard to see the benefits yet and easy to lose sight that progress is being made at all. We are all going through a cleanse of eliminating toxins and emotional dross that have slowly built up over many lifetimes. Solar flares will continue to be released amplifying and helping us in upgrading our DNA, shifting our vibrational frequency. Heightened sensitivities, electrical surges and buzzing through the body, heightened sensitivities to sound and energy. Muscle cramps and heat flashes that are connected to the releasing of kundalini energy moving through the body. Sleep disturbances and a need for more stillness and quietness. Dizziness, unexplained flu-like symptoms, feeling lethargic and headachy, and brain fog for no apparent reason. Feelings of exhaustion and burnout and the Thymus fluttering, heart palpitations as the heart charkra awakens like a sleeping giant stirring, are all indications of the change.

Our life force readjusting as gentle waves of light moves through us. These unpleasant symptoms will pass as our vibration continues to rise and we correct ourselves and release the energy blockages and distortions we have been carrying around. These internal adjustments are here to attune us and clear away the inner pollution we have been carrying. The more we can continue to process our shadow selves and the more we tend to the house where spirit lives the more effortless our transition will be and the more light can enter. We really are like baby switchboards learning to plug in to many more circuits that previously were not available to us. We can only handle a certain amount of energy at a time running through us otherwise we would literally blow our circuits. Our job is to be open to working the amount of increased voltage that is coming in. We are opening up to the lines of extra-sensory communication that hasn’t been previously available to us. For this to be done successfully our spiritual, emotional, physical and mental bodies must be purified

~ Terri Morehu ❤️

~Excerpt from the only way out is in.

Homecoming

This particular window of intense transformational energy we find ourselves in extends from the Equinox back on March 20th, through to the Jupiter/Uranus conjunction on April 20th. We are in the middle of the eclipse window, building toward the total solar eclipse on the 8th.

Specific dates within that period hold specific energies, but the whole month is a supercharged container designed to support our planetary and personal transformation. Everything is moving at an amazing pace now.

Over the past couple of weeks, I have witnessed something incredibly beautiful. It is a rare priviledge to work with individuals, assisting them to unwrap and unveil themselves. Often I witness things that I know are collective patterns, events and unfoldings.

What I am seeing now is the birth of our Cosmic Self.

The other day, working deep in a clients energy field, I watched as this pale blue face rose from the depths of her being. At first I wondered if this presence was intrusive, needed to leave, but no. I came to understand that this was something integrating, returning. The pale blue otherworldly face opened its eyes, blinking slowly and watched me for a few moments, then dreamily closed them again. I welcomed it to this reality, aware I was communicating to a level of her, my client, but also to a level of us collectively.

Looking into those vast, blinking eyes, there was an extraordinary depth of wisdom waiting to express. This level of consciousness was showing itself to me as sleepy, not quite “here” yet. It was universal, and I knew it is rising in us now, in this time.

This can feel truly uncomfortable and very disconcerting. A level of being rising from ancient depths within us, that doesn’t relate yet to this world. It is beginning to connect in to our physiology and our neurology. Everything will be rewired by this return. Our lives, our bodies and our world will be remapped. This can feel strange, awkward, sometimes even painful. Certainly old energies will be flushed away by a rising tide of purity.

It will seem slow to us. It’s actually happening at warp speed. Many have been experiencing this for years. Now, in this period millions are going to be feeling this emergence of a vastly deeper part of themselves. Cosmic Consciousness is being birthed within us collectively. The eclipse is like an on switch or a “Go Live” button. This month is life and world changing.

So it feels appropriate to deliver this over the Easter weekend, when a significant chunk of the world is focused on resurrection.

This is Christ Consciousness birthing itself in each of us. Oneness, integration of the stellar light body, star family alignment. All of these things and more. So much more.

It is happening. It is unstoppable. Our choices can confuse and delay this, but it can’t be stopped. Turn inwards and welcome this homecoming. We are coming home to ourselves.

Sending much love,

Dx

~ David Manning

Image Karen Elsworth Extra Dimensional Art