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Never trust the words of a Narcissist

Never trust the words of a narcissist.

They’ll present themselves as people of high morals—righteous, honorable, even godly. But in reality, whatever they claim to be is simply what they expect from you.

They don’t apply the same standards to themselves.

The double standard is very real.

And here’s the truth:

Nothing is more frightening than realizing the man you’re with is not the man you started out with.

The mask slips. Their words stop aligning with their actions. And suddenly, you’re left staring at someone you don’t even recognize.

This is why you can’t trust what they say.

Watch their actions. 👀

Words are cheap to a narcissist. Their actions? That’s where the truth is hiding.

If you’re seeing this pattern, hear me now:

You are not crazy. You are not alone. And there is life beyond the chaos.

#WordsOfSteele #TruthPrevails #ShatteredSilence #BoldAndUnbreakable #WinningInTheEnd #StayStrong #PureHeartPower #RadiantResilience #ResilientHeart

Narcissist hate our happiness

I know this all too well

They can’t bear us being happy. Often when we’ve broken free and started our lives over, much happily without them, they get really inventive with their slander and lies. This dad had arranged to take the children out for lunch, a rare treat, with their grandmother too. He waited to pick them up outside their house, his girlfriend and mother in the car too. They waited and waited. Finally, the alienating mother came storming out, screaming. She leaned in through the car window and asked the girlfriend if she had children of her own because they’d better not go anywhere near her ex. He wasn’t safe, clearly implying he was a paedophile. Fortunately, the girlfriend knew enough that these were the words of a deranged and jealous ex. But when their mother had driven off shouting down the neighbourhood, the children reluctantly got into the car, and reprimanded their dad for inflicting a girlfriend on them (apparently it had all been agreed beforehand). Lunch didn’t happen. The girlfriend wouldn’t sit through lunch pretending everything was okay. The dad took the children home, and they posted on social media how their mother was ‘a beast’ the new girlfriend had run off crying (not true), and their mother would easily beat the girlfriend in a fight. This story exemplifies how the children come out ‘guns blazing’ for an alienating parent, depicting them in a strong, victorious light, even imagining them like in this story, winning an actual, physical fight. Fortunately, this is a happy ending for the alienated dad. He and his girlfriend are happily married and enjoying holidays and great relationships with both his children and hers. The children are perfectly happy and safe. The alienator is still angry.

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#parentalalienationawareness

#parentalalienation

#childpsychologicalabuse

#FamilyCourt

#custody

#mothersmatter

#FathersMatter

#custodybattle

Relationship with a narcissist

When you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, there will always be another secret life going on behind your back.

This is because these people are very empty, and they need stimulation from multiple sources just to face existence. They’ll be doing drugs or pornography. They’ll be stringing multiple partners through flirting and emotional affairs. They will be chasing financial intrigue that occasionally gets them into scams and trouble.

The reason they must flirt with other people is also because they’re seeking to move on to other people who don’t know the games they play.

They know they’ll get bored with you eventually, or you’ll learn to resist their shenanigans. And since being alone would kill them, they begin to groom possible replacements among anyone whom they can charm.

You’ll also notice this habit of making promises to you and then using those promises as a dangling carrot to get compliance from you. If you don’t do what they want, they’ll withdraw the promise.

Sometimes, they’ll deny having promised at all, or they postpone it until you give up. The truth is that they never intended to fulfill it in the first place.

Narcissists have lost all sense of right and wrong. Everything is about satisfying themselves.

When you finally leave, they’ll circle back to you, pretending to be checking on you when actually they’re checking if they still have access.

If you have a child with them, they would weaponise that child to torture you until you cut them off totally or you manage to enforce boundaries with the help of the law.

But the child will be scarred or wasted by the counter parenting and objectification from the narcissist.

Society knows very little about narcissists.

Sometimes, you stay because you fear the pain of letting go until you realize the pain you’re already taking for holding on.

Other times, you think you’re staying for the children until you realize that the narcissist is turning all of them into other small narcissists and broken empaths.

Your solution is to recognize that this person is incapable of peace. They’re only excellent at pretending and confusing you.

You will never have a life until you detach from them and direct your life towards wholeness and emotional stability.

🥀🌹💐😍🥰😊☺️😘

Home without peace / Narcissism

The biggest prison in the world isn’t behind bars—it’s a home without peace. 🏚️💔

And let me tell you this: you will NEVER find peace in a home with a narcissist. 🔥

It’s not a home. It’s a battleground. 🪖 A place of chaos, manipulation, and control.

Break free. Choose peace. Choose YOU. ✨🏡💖

#WordsOfSteele #ShatteredSilence #RadiantResilience #BoldAndUnbreakable #BeYourBestYou #WinningInTheEnd