A man can’t handle the same hurt he gives a woman—and that’s a truth most won’t admit.
She cries. Breaks down. Questions herself. Holds on longer than she should. Tries to make it work even when her heart is breaking. She carries pain in silence, forgives what she shouldn’t, and still hopes he’ll change. She fights with herself trying to understand how someone she loved so deeply could cause so much damage.
And when she finally walks away?
It’s only after carrying far more than anyone ever should.
But him?
The moment he feels a fraction of the same pain—a missed text, an unanswered call, a shift in energy—he’s spiraling. Angry. Hurt. Accusing.
He made her feel invisible… but can’t stand being ignored for a second. He gave her silence, but can’t handle it himself. He broke her trust—but suddenly, every small distance feels like betrayal.
Because when a woman starts mirroring his energy, he has no choice but to face himself. And that reflection? It’s too heavy. Too real.
Men want women to absorb pain without breaking—like strength is endless in her, while they give nothing back.
But here’s the truth:
Just because she carried it doesn’t mean it was light.
She was strong—not because she wanted to be alone—but because she had no other option.
So yes.
Men say “she changed.”
But really?
She just got tired of feeling everything—and getting nothing in return.
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