Christmas for the targeted parent

I know that a lot of you are not going to be with you child this Christmas. For some of you this will the first time you have this experience, for others you will have already been through this difficult period.

Whilst you cannot control the situation, you can control how you choose to respond.

Top tip # 1 – Keep yourself busy and try to make sure that you are with other people on Christmas Day and ideally other days as well.

Your X wants you to be feeling lonely and miserable, why do their job for them? If you are feeling sad and miserable, this will not impact what your children are doing. If you are managing to find comfort and even some happiness being with others, this will also not impact what your children are doing. It only impacts you!

Find some things that you want to do and which you have been denying yourself, such as treats or experiences. Book it and do it.

Push yourself to get out and do things, you will thank yourself later that you did.

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I personally know that x wants me to be low and emotional during this holiday season, and that just ain’t happening. It was not an unusual Xmas and I was home on my own…

X wishes me unalive , so grief filled that he can feed off that energy .

Once I accepted his shadow- demonic intentions, I just stayed intent and focused in my work/rest .

X as most Narcissists do, loves when I’m ill, and vulnerable , it consumes him , to seek revenge due to my silence .

I emailed x a plan to resolve the financial issues and business related problems mid month . No response .

I wrote our sons on the 25 th , wishing them a happy and safe holiday sharing my proposal email to x , which was generous given that he was illegal.

I’m sure he knows and is slinging some negative energy my way , though I have expressed that what he hexes me with is going coming back compounded to him.

He’s in control , no higher power , just him, his vendetta to shut me up and Divine has an accounting of all he has abused.

It’s his fate .

I know that a lot of you are not going to be with you child this Christmas. For some of you this will the first time you have this experience, for others you will have already been through this difficult period.

Whilst you cannot control the situation, you can control how you choose to respond.

Top tip # 1 – Keep yourself busy and try to make sure that you are with other people on Christmas Day and ideally other days as well.

Your X wants you to be feeling lonely and miserable, why do their job for them? If you are feeling sad and miserable, this will not impact what your children are doing. If you are managing to find comfort and even some happiness being with others, this will also not impact what your children are doing. It only impacts you!

Find some things that you want to do and which you have been denying yourself, such as treats or experiences. Book it and do it.

Push yourself to get out and do things, you will thank yourself later that you did.

#charliemccready #9stepprogram #parentalalienationcoach #parentalalienationawareness #parentalalienationischildabuse #parentalalienationisreal #parentalalienation #alienatedparent #alienatedchild #alienatedfather #alienatedmother #rejectedmother #rejectedfather #rejectedparent #highconflictdivorce #highconflictcoparenting #coparentingwithanarcissist #coparenting #divorce #familylaw #FamilyCourt #childabuse #psychologicalchildabuse #narcissisticabuseawareness #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissism #narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcissismawareness #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissists

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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