Having a detached father/child partner was draining and though I tried very hard ; I could not hold all the ” balls” in the air .
His expectation that he was the power and thus due the upmost attention and 3 sons challenged that . Of course he did nothing to support me , rather it was always competing and self serving with no growth or solidify of basic foundations .
Totally devalued me , psychiatrist drugged me into submission where I discovered his shadow and found myself in the unenviable position of his having total control of my life
He still feels entitled and feels I’m not grateful !
I feel Mothers are due support and respect and their many jobs should be acknowledged with services awarded the work force .
More balanced , children result from nurture and nature in balance and support of each other . No one person in the family should wield more power , and destroying the divinity of mother child has a kick back
Like France , we should automatically financially support Mother & Child for the 1st 5 years , until child begins school
Mom could work selected hours on line or take courses . It’s a WinWin💯
Blessings & Peace ☮️