Tag: behavior

Kim Saeed – narcissism is a brain condition..

Narcissism is largely a condition of the brain. A lot of people get mad as hell when introduced to this fact. They think it’s making excuses for narcissists and implying they have no choice or control over how they act. But, this isn’t the case at all. Here is a crash course on this topic, by my colleague who knows the REAL DEAL when it comes to narcissistic individuals and how they behave.

“While NPD affects certain brain functions, others are completely intact, allowing control and choice in behavior. This highlights that despite NPD’s complexities, individuals with the disorder can still discern and choose their actions, especially in contexts that serve their interests. They have a perfectly functioning system when it comes to understanding right/ wrong. They fully know what makes them look bad. They are able completely to target their problematic behaviors to specific individuals. That is how most (if not all) of them function. They are not fully at the mercy of a brain that makes them do something.” @Neuroinstincts – Dr. Rhonda Freeman

Behavioral Patterns ; James Redfield

Most of us, throughout life, hear various complaints from others about our behavioral patterns. The human tendency is to ignore or rationalize away these complaints in order to go on with our preferred style of life. Even now, when knowledge of self-defeating scripts and habits is becoming a greater part of human awareness, we find it very difficult to view our personal behavior in an objective manner.

Of course, it can be hard to give up our control dramas because we’ve learned to depend on them for energy. We learned our dramatic tactics during childhood because of the control dramas of our parents. We’ve lived through battles over energy and power struggles, and they impacted us significantly. The solution to finding peace in relationships is always taking the time to find your peace first—which is another way of saying ‘find your connection to real energy, so that you don’t need to take it from other people’.

When we find our own inner connection to Divine loving energy, we realize that we don’t need to engage in relationships where we are dependent on anyone else—we don’t need anyone to complete us; we are already whole. When upsetting circumstances arrive, we realize we are far stronger than we’d ever imagined. Sadness, heart-breaks, hurts, and anxieties are soothed, and the ups and downs of life become less volatile so life can flow more smoothly. 🙏✨