Most of us, throughout life, hear various complaints from others about our behavioral patterns. The human tendency is to ignore or rationalize away these complaints in order to go on with our preferred style of life. Even now, when knowledge of self-defeating scripts and habits is becoming a greater part of human awareness, we find it very difficult to view our personal behavior in an objective manner.
Of course, it can be hard to give up our control dramas because we’ve learned to depend on them for energy. We learned our dramatic tactics during childhood because of the control dramas of our parents. We’ve lived through battles over energy and power struggles, and they impacted us significantly. The solution to finding peace in relationships is always taking the time to find your peace first—which is another way of saying ‘find your connection to real energy, so that you don’t need to take it from other people’.
When we find our own inner connection to Divine loving energy, we realize that we don’t need to engage in relationships where we are dependent on anyone else—we don’t need anyone to complete us; we are already whole. When upsetting circumstances arrive, we realize we are far stronger than we’d ever imagined. Sadness, heart-breaks, hurts, and anxieties are soothed, and the ups and downs of life become less volatile so life can flow more smoothly. 🙏✨