Behavioral Patterns ; James Redfield

Most of us, throughout life, hear various complaints from others about our behavioral patterns. The human tendency is to ignore or rationalize away these complaints in order to go on with our preferred style of life. Even now, when knowledge of self-defeating scripts and habits is becoming a greater part of human awareness, we find it very difficult to view our personal behavior in an objective manner.

Of course, it can be hard to give up our control dramas because we’ve learned to depend on them for energy. We learned our dramatic tactics during childhood because of the control dramas of our parents. We’ve lived through battles over energy and power struggles, and they impacted us significantly. The solution to finding peace in relationships is always taking the time to find your peace first—which is another way of saying ‘find your connection to real energy, so that you don’t need to take it from other people’.

When we find our own inner connection to Divine loving energy, we realize that we don’t need to engage in relationships where we are dependent on anyone else—we don’t need anyone to complete us; we are already whole. When upsetting circumstances arrive, we realize we are far stronger than we’d ever imagined. Sadness, heart-breaks, hurts, and anxieties are soothed, and the ups and downs of life become less volatile so life can flow more smoothly. 🙏✨

Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser .. View all posts by GreatCosmicMothersUnited