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Sage relationship advice

NON-NEGOTIABLE ACTS IN COUPLE

1. Always be faithful. Even if your partner has not been with you, don’t pay with the same coin. Respect yourself, don’t trample on your dignity and don’t make excuses or justify on the mistakes of the other person to clean up and justify your own decisions. Be honest above all. Don’t lie to yourself.

2. Don’t let your mind deceive you. Everything starts from the mind, control it; Example: “We’re just friends”, “Just a call”, “A little message”, “A coffee”, “It’s just work things”.

Lies! It’s the trap of deception. Be with integrity and loyal .

3. Don’t do to your partner what you wouldn’t want done to you. Respecting and respecting each other is key.

4. Don’t ignore or hide anything from your partner. Don’t give more importance to virtual “friendships” that will never be with you. The time you lose on the cell phone and social networks, apply it to living with your partner, in quality time. That has caused a lot of problems and breakdowns. Value and keep the peace in your relationship.

5. Never block the communication This is critical to conflict resolution. Learn to communicate, to listen, don’t interrupt, give space for your partner to express themselves without bothering you. Look for solutions, don’t provoke rocks just because you don’t like what you hear. Remember they are two and both should bring opinions and suggestions not just you.

6. Don’t sell out your mate. Don’t tell your partner’s intimacies to your female friends or friends.

7. Don’t be silent. Do not apply the ice law. Speak when you are calm; do not stop talking to your partner, do not build walls of pride and coldness.

8. Don’t go to bed angry. So you have anger and pain, give yourself forgiveness before sleeping. Let humility and love prevail.

9. Never shout under any circumstances.

10. Don’t exaggerate. (“Is that you always”, “is that you never”).

11. Don’t make important decisions alone; without agreeing (business, money, schools, changes, travel). Everything must be agreed and in a team.

12. If they already have kids, don’t fight in front of them. That causes psychological trauma and creates patterns of behavior that they will repeat as adults.

13. Don’t abuse the nobility of your partner. Don’t leave them more to do, don’t load their hand.

14. Don’t speak ill of your partner to third parties. Don’t ridicule her when she’s present; for example: “she snores horribly”, “she doesn’t know how to cook”, “she’s a bad friend”, “bad pay”, “drunk”, “bad lover”, “smells bad”. That’s psychological violence and you only project your own miseries.

15. Don’t lose sight of the details, nice words, be presentable to the couple, flatter, reinforce day to day.

16. Don’t refuse forgiveness when asked.

17. Think about separation when there are beating, physical and psychological abuse. May your life be in danger. Let there be infidelity; where respect and dignity is being lost for yourself.

18. Don’t talk about the past of either of you; who you dated, who you hung out with, don’t keep any communication with those people anymore. That’s past, respect your new relationship. And less bringing old fights or discussions into new problems, that is reopening the fight.

19. Don’t make comparisons between spouse and children, with other partners, children, friendships or acquaintances.

20. Build love together; talk, resolve, share, respect, understand, validate, not hide.

Magical

We all start out knowing magic. We are born with whirlwinds, forest fires, and comets inside us. We are born able to sing to birds and read the clouds and see our destiny in grains of sand.

But then we get the magic educated right out of our souls. We get it churched out, spanked out, washed out, and combed out. We get put on the straight and narrow and told to be responsible. Told to act our age. Told to grow up, for God’s sake. And you know why we were told that? Because the people doing the telling were afraid of our wildness and youth, and because the magic we knew made them ashamed and sad of what they’d allowed to wither in themselves.

~ Robert R. McCammon

Resonance

“Notice the term resonance comes from the Latin verb ‘resonare,’ meaning to “return to sound”. It means to sound and resound, as in an echo. The point of existence is to activate and resonate with the core template embedded in DNA. Every human being is an antenna and tuning fork for energies coming from the Great Central Sun. The more we live in integrity with true nature, the longer lasting and more expansive the experience of resonance, the more conscious and frequent synchronicities appear, and the more ecstatic we are as musical notes moving up the cosmic scale. Our language is full of plays on words that resonate. “Being in tune with true being” is being “on the same wave length” as what really matters. It’s why silence is the loudest voice that aligns everything to the tone of deepest being when one is ready to listen.” – Liara Covert

Come find me

Come find me when you’re ready to shed the masks you’ve worn to protect yourself from the world. When the walls you’ve built around your heart start to feel more like a cage than a sanctuary. Come find me when you’re done playing hide and seek with your emotions, pretending you don’t feel what you feel. When you’ve outgrown the games that used to distract you from what you really want—when what you crave is connection, not just attention.

Come find me when you realize that love is not just a word, but a responsibility—a willingness to show up fully, even when it’s hard, even when it scares you. When you’re ready to embrace something deeper, something more profound than the fleeting thrill of the chase. Come find me when you’re tired of empty conversations and shallow connections, when you’re ready to build something with roots, something that can withstand the storms of life.

Come find me when you’re searching for quality over quantity, when you’ve stopped measuring your worth by the number of people you can impress and started valuing the ones who truly see you. When you’re ready to stop chasing temporary thrills and start cultivating something lasting.

Come find me when you’re no longer afraid to be vulnerable—when you understand that true strength lies in being seen, in showing your scars, your fears, your hopes, and your dreams. When you know that love is not about perfection, but about two people choosing each other, again and again, through the mess and the beauty.

Come find me when you’re ready to build something real—when the need for love outweighs the need for ego, when you’re willing to let go of your fears and dive into the unknown. I’ll be here, waiting, for the person who’s ready for all that love can be.

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Don’t drift too far from your inner child

Don’t drift too far from the child you used to be—the one who found joy in the smallest things, like chasing shadows or watching clouds form shapes in the sky.

Hold on to that curiosity, the way everything felt new and exciting. One day, when life feels overwhelming and happiness seems out of reach, that part of you can remind you of the little things that once made you feel so alive.

Sometimes, we get caught up in responsibilities, ticking off lists and chasing deadlines, forgetting the simple joys we used to cherish. Remember how the smell of rain could brighten your mood or how staring at the stars made everything seem possible? Those moments—often overlooked now—are the ones that brought you the purest happiness. It’s easy to lose that magic as we grow older, but that child inside is still there, waiting to remind you that life is about more than just getting through the day.

It’s about finding small wonders that still have the power to make you feel alive.

~ LJ Blossoms, Writer’s Blossoms

~ Art ‘Keeping Her Dreams Alive’ by Shawna Erback

Love ❤️ & Maturity

“Man goes from one woman to another, goes on changing. People think he is a great lover; he is not a lover at all. He is avoiding, he is trying to avoid any deep involvement because with deep involvement problems have to be faced, and much pain has to be gone through. So one simply plays safe; one makes it a point never to go too deeply into somebody.

If you go too deep you may not be able to come back easily. And if you go deeply into somebody, somebody else will go deeply into you also; it is always proportionate. If I go very deep in you the only way is to allow you also to go that deep in me. It is a give and take, it is a sharing. Then one may get entangled too much, and it will be difficult to escape and the pain may be much. So people learn how to play safe: just let surfaces meet — hit-and-run love affairs. Before you are caught, run.

This is what is happening in the modern world. People have become so juvenile, so childish; they are losing all maturity.

Maturity comes only when you are ready to face the pain of your being; maturity comes only when you are ready to take the challenge. And there is no greater challenge than love.”

~Osho

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Visitors

Patience visited me

And it reminded me

That good things take time to come to fruition

And grow slowly with stability

Peace visited me

And it reminded me

That I may remain calm through the storms of life

Regardless of the chaos surrounding me

Hope visited me

And it reminded me

That better times lay ahead

And it would always be there to guide and uplift me

Humility visited me

And it reminded me

That I may achieve it

Not by trying to shrink myself and make myself less

But by focusing on serving the world and uplifting those around me

Kindness visited me

And it reminded me

To be more gentle, forgiving and compassionate toward myself

And those surrounding me

Confidence visited me

And it reminded me

To not conceal or suppress my gifts and talents

In order to make others feel more comfortable

But to embrace what makes me me

Focus visited me

And it reminded me

That other people’s insecurities and judgements about me

Are not my problem

And I should redirect my attention

From others back to me

Freedom visited me

And it reminded me

That no one has control over my mindset, thoughts and wellbeing

But me

And love visited me

And it reminded me

That I need not search for it in others

As it lies within me.

-unknown

Artist unknown

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