So much of this has shown up in my experience. The micromanaging is with my money and blocking healthy relationships; children and male .
Those days have ended but X isn’t easy with lack of control and change .
Thy Will Has Been Done ✔️
So much of this has shown up in my experience. The micromanaging is with my money and blocking healthy relationships; children and male .
Those days have ended but X isn’t easy with lack of control and change .
Thy Will Has Been Done ✔️
Short and sweet and to the point , yes he was tethered to his Mom, and I didn’t know he was seeing anyone until , she knocked on his door, and ask to pack up her pots and pans .
Of course as our relationship grew , I began to witness a bond with his Mom that was not right , and increasingly understood , the 2 were #1, as his relationship of almost twenty years ended . Over me over our sons it was Mom, was was until a few months ago …
In our social sets or in public ,he didn’t behave like a husband , or a lover.. nor a friend .
Definitely not demonstrating he cared or was interested which I felt was an emotional issue .
Not that he was demonstrating closeness to his Mom , but they were confidants . Over anyone else …
Kind compliments came from friends , or strangers but never him. After our sons were born I had their love , trust and affections and fun.
That challenged him.
Defiantly the a solitary man.. the reserved , cold nature was hard to ignore