“Crazy ” Women

Have you ever noticed how the moment a woman refuses to tolerate lies, disrespect, or deceit, she’s suddenly labeled as “difficult”? How the second she stands up for herself, draws a line, or refuses to accept less than she deserves, she becomes “unstable,” “crazy,” or “bitter”? It’s almost like the world has a problem with women who have standards… especially when those standards challenge the comfort of a man who’s used to getting away with doing the bare minimum.

Let’s be real…. a woman who speaks her truth, calls out toxic behavior, and walks away from anything that disrespects her is not broken. She’s not hard to love. She’s not angry for no reason. She’s just tired of pretending she doesn’t see the red flags, tired of shrinking herself to keep the peace, tired of swallowing her emotions to protect someone else’s ego.

It’s not that she’s bitter… it’s that she’s done being betrayed and expected to stay sweet about it. It’s not that she’s unstable… it’s that she’s exhausted from carrying the weight of her own loyalty while constantly being tested. And it’s definitely not that she’s crazy… it’s that she finally stopped ignoring what her intuition was screaming all along.

The truth is, many men call women “crazy” when they can’t manipulate them. They call them “bitter” when they refuse to accept disrespect. They call them “difficult” when they realize she’s not going to play small just to be loved.

But here’s what they don’t understand: a woman who knows her worth is powerful. A woman who says, “I’m not accepting less than I give,” is unstoppable. And if protecting her peace makes her “too much”…. then let her be too much. Because the right man will never be intimidated by her strength, her boundaries, or her voice. He will honor it.

So let them talk. Let them misunderstand her. Because being labeled for standing firm is a small price to pay for keeping her dignity intact.

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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