Being cheated on

Here’s the truth about being cheated on…

If you’ve been cheated on by the person you love, it doesn’t matter how much you love them, you need to understand that you deserve better and that it’s better to let them go.

When someone cheats on you, it changes who you are, and it changes how you think.

Because betrayal trauma is different; it’s one of the worst kinds.

Cheating is one of the most disrespectful and disgusting types of behaviour that someone can ever display in a relationship.

Most cheaters are some form of narcissists or at the very least have narcissistic personalities, and as such they’d rather blame the person they cheated on or the person they cheated with instead of properly taking accountability for their actions.

Trust that is broken as a result of betrayal is one of the worst forms of broken trust in a relationship.

You can still love this person but once that trust is broken, things will never be the same again.

It’s like a china vase being dropped on the ground; you can glue it back together but it’s never quite the same.

Every time you look at them, you’re going to remember what they did and how much it hurt.

You’re going to feel the anger, the pain, and their betrayal all over again.

You’re going to remember how to them you weren’t enough for them in the relationship.

It’s going to keep playing over and over again in your head no matter how much you love them.

And chances are, if they feel they’ve gotten away with it, they’re going to do it again!

You deserve better than this, and you need to make the decision to move on and find someone decent, who actually has morals, values, and integrity, because your relationship won’t ever be able to be quite the same again.

The reality is that people who cheat have the weakest mentalities, and they are some of the weakest people you’ll ever come across because of what they allowed to take place.

You deserve better than that, and you deserve better than feeling the pain of their betrayal every single day when you look at them.

You deserve someone who can be mature enough to appreciate what they have, and not act like a child who doesn’t know right from wrong.

Know you worth, walk away, and know that they’re just not worth it…

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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