Being fair to her

If you think her reactions are always excessive or out of place, maybe it’s time to look at yourself.

A woman doesn’t just become difficult or hot-headed for no reason; most of the time, it’s a reaction to the way you treat her.

Are you focusing on every little flaw of hers? Do you point out her mistakes while ignoring your own? When was the last time you really took a hard look in the mirror and asked yourself if you’re being fair to her?

She’s not the problem if all you’re showing her is disrespect, neglect, or indifference. You can’t just judge her like that when your own behavior is left unchecked.

If you want a woman to love you fully, you need to take care of her trust and respect. In the end, she’s not looking for perfection. She just wants to feel valued by you, in both words and actions. Maybe the reason you think she’s toxic is because you haven’t yet understood the importance of being a responsible partner.

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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