Let ‘em talk – says way more of them than you

Big Reveal / Revelations

In the drama and dysfunction communication is often indirect. There’s lots of “don’t ask don’t tell” going on.

Recent drama events will often be surrounded by deep denial.

Attempts to address these events…to try to resolve things? can be met with more dysfunctional behaviors as the parties involved cannot sit with their own discomfort.

Thus – they’ll likely not be responsive but rather become defensive, argumentative and in general turning the tables to make something wrong with you for trying to go there.

I’m other words?

More drama will ensue.

Instead of trying to convince them?

Let them have their drama.

Let them tell their stories about you.

Let them hold onto their idea that they were victimized by you, rather than abusive to you.

Once we stop trying to work things out with those who are unable to work things out?

Things sort of just start working out for us.

❤️

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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