Time Passes By ; People Move On – Kathy Mattea

Always loved this song and not came to mind last night as I once against face exiting the distorted and abusive past .

I accept that the marriage was a sham on his part and I became the past as he exited for his ” happiness ” .

Feeling his distortion, his causal , distracted interest which required him to make plans . A new partner, his money and property were his main concern and owing victimhood he slowly made it clear to our sons and family and friends that they favor him exclusively! It was a breech if they did otherwise unless gathering information he needed . I can assure you he hasn’t let go and won’t until a court hearing.

The past , is long past and my effort for over 20 years has be thwarted by laws that protect him and his deceits and transgressions of the law of men and not of our state .

Yes , even white women are enslaved by laws erected in the early 1950’s !!!

Time For A Change for sure and it’s coming by force after decades of asking , he had a choice to correct everything .

Even after discussing the mental and physical side effects of his malignant abuse on our children .

It’s always what’s best for him .His sense of family , of cooperation lost in lieu of the all powerful , all knowing and all shadow that he repeated with his new ” happy” but just wants in the past as if it never happened .

Time has marched on , and the losses in that time have been many but only strengthened my spiritual experience.


I am still posting on my cell phone which does not show the option to post a link.

I’m working on a resolution!

Blessings & Peace ☮️

Dona Luna


Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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