With the uttermost tenderness, no need to rush, place your hand on your heart and gently knock on the Door of Grief.
What do you sense could be waiting for you behind this door? What wants to be named, honored and held?
Maybe it is obvious, a loss so stark and unavoidable, one that knocks you over with a weight more massive and frightening than you think you can bear.
Or maybe it is more of a subtle ache— losses of hugs, of dreams, of days, of relationships, of the familiar slipping out of your hands.
Grief is a portal into Life.
Grief shows us how deeply we loved.
Be gentle with your heart,
~ Chameli Ardagh
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I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse.
As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my
desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven.
I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are
denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child.
I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power..
I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination..
Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative".
It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..
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