Alienating behaviours generally fall into the category of narcissistic/borderline personality disorders. But they don’t think of themselves like that, such is their grandiosity and delusional mindset of superiority. Unfortunately, they typically refuse cooperation and cooparenting and counselling. They’ll make excuses – including lack of funds. But they’ll happily waste money on custody battles, and prolonged litigation. All they care about is ‘winning’ which is at the cost of everyone else. They don’t take responsibility or look for solutions; instead they blame others, and consider any solution offered to be a threat. Often the narcissistic alienating parent will be the most confident, charming one, they present well because they’re so sure of themselves and the indoctrination of the child, they’re confident they’ll fool everyone. The first person they delude is themselves – that they’re loving, protective and strong. In truth, they’re afraid of ‘losing’ and of sharing, they’re jealous of anyone else having something they believe is theirs alone. They’re vindictive. Court-appointed officials, judges and counsellors must have the skills and experience to recognise true abuse from excuses from those placing the blame elsewhere.
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