Often, what seems like mixed signals are not mixed at all. We just try to label them that way.
A person who genuinely cares about you will not take chances on losing you.
When a person sends what you think are mixed signals, it’s actually a clear statement that they don’t care what happens because they’re not invested in a relationship with you.
The only question now is whether you’re going to settle for that.
No need to play detective.
No need to call your friends.
No need to see if they’re on a dating app but not messaging you.
No need to send a smiley emoji to “innocently” check in on them.
If you’ve been involved with someone for a while and are still unsure where you stand, that is a clear signal.
A person who wants you will make sure you know it because they don’t want to lose you to someone else.
If you’re not getting a clear “YES,” then that is a clear ‘NO.’
Recovery from narcissistic abuse includes learning to stop accepting crumbs. Believe it or not, there are people out there in the world who would want you in their life. But it requires getting rid of the users and manipulators first to make space for the stand-up person who could be your genuine partner.
You don’t need to settle. Mixed signalers and breadcrumbers are not the last people on earth. It’s time to stop treating them as if they are.
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