I did not consider his new supply a downgrade , more like she was his mirror twin , distorted and lacking morality . Expressing sexual intimacies with me, and I’m sure with her , experiencing the total withdrawal of anything close to love or compassion as she too became unable to work.. 5 years after her health failed, he returned from a trip out of state to find her gone . He had to pay out , due to her contribution to house etc .. and he never gets over a personal loss of money.
When people talk about someone else as a “downgrade,” it is making a quick, unfair judgement about a person without really knowing very much about them.
When you see the narcissist with someone else who you consider a downgrade, you don’t know their full situation or story. Automatically looking at someone as a downgrade is a judgmental place to be in, rather than an open and compassionate place.
Learn how to handle this feeling in the article:
https://bit.ly/AreTheyReallyaDowngrade
Your friend on the journey,
Kim 🕊️
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