Beyond a certain age children criticize targeted parent – Charlie McCready

Our children repeated comments made by X or his gal or family , which were filled with hatred , blame and name calling .

It’s a painful reality when our reaction to the provocation becomes the focal point, allowing the alienating behaviour to go unchecked. Everyone seems to look the other way, directly at the target parent. This power is amplified when the child also points fingers at the target parent. The child has been enmeshed, coerced, lied to, bribed, manipulated, and essentially brainwashed into sharing the alienating parent’s delusions triggered by separation or divorce. The ‘aligned’ parent’s narcissistic wound has been opened, and they’ve weaponised the child.

We must be careful how we react because this is not a normal child/parent relationship from here on. This isn’t adolescence or estrangement, and it has been inflicted on you and the child. It is child psychological and spousal psychological abuse, commonly known as parental alienation.

#charliemccready

#parentalalienationcoach

#alienatedparent

#FamilyCourt

Unknown's avatar

Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

Leave a comment