Cheaters

“It’s easy for a man to walk away when he already been cheating…” Whew. That line alone carries so much weight. Because once someone’s already been stepping out—emotionally, physically, or even mentally—they been gone. Their body might still be around, but their mind and heart checked out a long time ago. So when they finally leave, it don’t hurt them the way it breaks you, because they’ve already grieved the relationship in silence, behind your back. They just waited until it was convenient to make it official.

But a faithful man? A man who gave you his all, who saw forever in your eyes, who looked at you and saw his peace, his purpose, his person? He won’t walk away that easy. Not without a fight. Not without trying to fix it, talk it out, meet you halfway—even if it hurts. Because you were his home. His comfort. His best friend. That kind of man isn’t quick to let go of something he values. He knows how hard it is to find someone who matches his loyalty, his heart, his effort. He knows.

And that’s the difference. When a man is truly invested, he’s not looking for the nearest exit the moment things get hard. He doesn’t treat commitment like a pair of shoes he can just slip off when it gets uncomfortable. He’s in it—really in it. And even if things fall apart, you’ll never question if he cared, because his love left no room for doubt.

That’s why it hits so different. Because deep down, we all want that kind of loyalty. The kind that doesn’t flinch when life gets real. The kind that doesn’t make you beg to be chosen. So if he walked away without trying, without fighting, without even turning back—it’s not because you weren’t enough.

It’s because he never was. 💔

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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