Walking Away

Stop testing the limits of my patience and my love. I’ve given you my trust, my loyalty, and my heart…but even I have boundaries. If you continue to deceive, manipulate, and betray me, don’t expect me to stay.

I’ve stood by you time and again, forgiving your mistakes, overlooking your flaws, and believing in the person I hoped you could become. I’ve poured everything into this relationship…my love, my energy, and my faith…even when it hurt me, even when you didn’t deserve it. That’s what love is: showing up, holding on, and believing in someone, even when it’s hard.

But love and loyalty are not infinite. They have limits, and they come with expectations. Cheating is not an accident; it’s a choice. Narcissism is not just a flaw; it’s a refusal to see anyone but yourself. If you keep exploiting my forgiveness, testing my understanding, and shattering my trust, there will come a moment when I no longer have the strength or desire to repair what you’ve broken.

And when that moment comes, don’t act surprised. Don’t play the victim. Don’t accuse me of walking away too easily. I’ve given you every opportunity to change, to grow, and to prove that this relationship is worth saving. But if you continue to take me for granted, you can’t be shocked when I finally choose to walk away.

When I leave, it won’t be out of anger or hate…it will be out of self-respect. And when you finally realize what you’ve lost, remember: it wasn’t me who gave up…it was you who pushed me away.

#karmasays

Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser .. View all posts by GreatCosmicMothersUnited