Don’t feed the parental Alienator – Charlie McCarthy

When alienated parents react and become outraged, and heartbroken by the loss of their child and the injustice they face, it’s perfectly understandable, and natural. However, continually dwelling on these negative emotions and allowing them to consume our energy can be detrimental to our emotional well-being.

The quote by Emily Maroutian about ‘paying’ attention to what we focus on, serves as a reminder. While it’s crucial to acknowledge and process our emotions, dwelling on them excessively can perpetuate the cycle of pain and hinder our ability to heal. Instead, it’s beneficial to redirect energy towards self-care, seeking support, and taking proactive steps to address the situation constructively. By shifting attention towards personal growth, healing, and finding ways to reconnect with their child, as and when that’s possible, we can create a healthier space for ourselves and increase the chances of eventual resolution and reconciliation.

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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