Picture this: a partner who is ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ถ๐ฐ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฎ๐น๐๐ต. They can’t bear the thought of losing you, but they can’t bring themself to truly love you either.
They are the type who takes you for granted. The more you pour your heart and soul into them, the less they seems to appreciate it. And just when you’ve had enough and are ready to walk away, they suddenly transforms into the person you’ve always wanted. They promises to change, to love you the way you deserve.
So you give them another chance. You want to believe that they finally turned a corner. But deep down, you know it’s all an act. They haven’t changed at all. And once again, you find the strength to walk away.
But they won’t let you go that easily. They proclaims their undying love, they beg for forgiveness. And against your better judgement, you take them back. ๐จ๐ฎ๐จI๐ต.
But let’s be clear: a persons anger and persistence don’t prove their love. It’s just a childish reaction to losing control. And a few half-hearted kisses or empty promises to be nicer aren’t proof that they’re really trying to change. It’s just thwm manipulating you, using every trick in the book to keep you hooked.
Think about it: a child cries when you take away their toys. An adult cries when you threaten their convenience. But just because they throw a tantrum doesn’t mean you should give in.
It’s time to stop listening to your partners empty promises and start paying attention to their actions. It’s time to stop chasing some romantic ideal and face the reality of your relationship.
If you’re honest with yourself, you might realize that you’ve never really known what it’s like to be loved by a someone genuine and real. You know lust, you know fleeting joy, you know passion, and you know the gnawing fear of being abandoned.
But real love… that’s something different. Real love isn’t about making empty promises to patch things up after he’s messed up (again). Real love is about a person who acts with integrity from the start, because they can’t bear the thought of losing you.
Real love isn’t about a man or woman changing just to keep you around. Real love is about a person who grows and changes on their own, because they knows that he or she is better with you by their side.
So don’t settle for anything less. Don’t waste another moment on a person who doesn’t know how to truly love you. You deserve so much more.
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