How to Teach Kids Manners Without Asking for the ‘Magic Word’ – Raised Good

She makes some good points , but some things sound alienated.

She states that if her 5 year old forgets to use his manners , she

does it for him…

I used time outs, corners and magic words .. proof positive my

” professional ” advisors , Dr Spock , articles in parenting magazines

and friends were misled ..

The main thing I grasp here is control..and I have experienced that

from DILs and seen the dynamics within their relationships with

other women and their Moms .

Why prompting, prodding and “teaching” children manners doesn’t work and eight respectful, positive parenting strategies that do.
— Read on raisedgood.com/asking-magic-word-teach-manners-what-do-instead/

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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