PA is not normal, not loving towards their child – Charlie McCready

I have read that a parent who alienates their children against their other parent is exhibiting narcissism.

I believe this is so .

The parental alienator is angry you left them, and you’re no longer under their control, paying their bills and/or stroking their ego, and playing their victim/victor games, so you must be punished. They may suffer from a narcissistic wound, and they will use any means, especially the child/children, because that will hurt you the most. Your pain is their pleasure. This is obviously abnormal unhealthy behaviour. Any deep wounds they have are no excuse for them. Instead of taking responsibility, they blame others – it’s easier. Parental alienators are highly manipulative, they use coercive control, which is basically a way of reducing or totally denying a victim’s freedom, by stripping away their (child’s) sense of self. Parental Alienation with coercive control is abuse. Their end game is to sever and destroy the child’s relationship with their other parent after family separation. They will manipulate a child (subtle use of language, lies, false allegations, bribes, threats …) into showing unwarranted fear, disrespect or hostility towards the target parent and this includes their extended family and friends. This includes any hobbies the ‘target’ parent is interested in. Even their pets. The parental alienator convinces others the child speaks for her/himself – this is similar to gaslighting behaviour seen in situations of domestic violence whereby the perpetrator convinces the victim it’s their fault. Also, the parental alienator triangulates others into believing the targeted parent is the cause of the children’s rejection. Bottom line, parental alienation is abuse, and it is not normal behaviour for a child to totally reject a parent.

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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