Perfection in the Narcissist

The eldest child had a nickname ,that honored her perfectionism. Only a few years younger , he was supposed to follow suit . His Mom worked and was socially connected , and he was somewhat liberated to act like the big dog , smoking , sexing and doing what boys do with out supervision.

Our sons were subjected to caring for each other , or themselves , on their own way too early with a busy Dad and a drugged Mom .

Only I am responsible in their eyes .

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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